"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Give me some Reassurance!

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Okay fact of the matter im still kinda stuck on one girl that seems to be stringing me along. Telling me I should be around when "her" year of being single is up.. And I still have that feeling like we arent finished even though she has LJBF'ed me. She still gives me all kinds of mixed signals. Like asking me to hang all the friggen time and sitting soo close that she's basically on my lap when we're just waiting to be seated at a restaurant with lots of room to sit and she sits almost on my lap.

But on the other hand I have an awesome girl in my pocket. Meaning alls i gotta do is ask and she's "mine." I'm afraid if I go all the way to commited with this girl I may have second thoughts later and totally screw this girl over.

Any advice would be appreciated and Im sorry this doesnt help the forum at all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ljbf'ed!!! Means get the hell out of there!!!!

Only tallk to woman romantically right away and then you will never be there friend!!


Here is your reassurance --- I can assure you that she doesn't want you!!!
 
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I laugh when guys say that girls give mixed signals.

You know why?

Because there's no "theory" for women. And we as guys, we like to put women in a box, and place a "theory" on them, so when they start acting one way then another way....we get confused because we don't know how to figure them out.

That's why you need to DROP your theories. All theories you have developed on women need to be DROPPED immediately.

The only thing you need to do is love your sexuality and love theres. Love sexuality, thus, you love life.

Embrace your horniness, learn how to control it and speak to a girl through your body and horniness that you are the best thing going.

Read my thread in the tips section, read througout that thread.

What you will learn is much different than what you've been taught, but it will wake you up a bit.
 
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Well, yeah there is the possibility that she likes you. But seriously man, waiting around for her to realize that she really does want you afterall, that's not really a very smart way to live life is it? Haven't you learned anything since joining this forum 3 years ago?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lost1 said:
Okay fact of the matter im still kinda stuck on one girl that seems to be stringing me along. Telling me I should be around when "her" year of being single is up.. And I still have that feeling like we arent finished even though she has LJBF'ed me. She still gives me all kinds of mixed signals. Like asking me to hang all the friggen time and sitting soo close that she's basically on my lap when we're just waiting to be seated at a restaurant with lots of room to sit and she sits almost on my lap.

But on the other hand I have an awesome girl in my pocket. Meaning alls i gotta do is ask and she's "mine." I'm afraid if I go all the way to commited with this girl I may have second thoughts later and totally screw this girl over.

Any advice would be appreciated and Im sorry this doesnt help the forum at all.
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After reading that, I'm going to ask you to excuse any rudeness you find in this post.

Fvck off, go find you own reassurance. I'm not giving it to you, NO ONE EVER GETS THEIR ONE-ITIS! Understand? You are going to be regretting that fact that this chick playing cat fvcking mouse ruined your chances with another hottie.

Forget about her, come one mate, you can't figure this out yourself? This is the feeling that you are suppose to give women. Those mixed signals, she's doing exactly what we do to women to you, and you still fall for it? What are you? Stupid?

Get the fvck out of there, go fvck 10 other women, that's your solution.

Never, ever let a chick have that much control over you life, ever.
 
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After reading this I have concluded that I sound extreamely stupid. The signs were right infront of my face already I just didnt want to see them. Thanks for your help!


I just needed to sleep on it I guess, I'm seein clearly now.:rolleyes:
 
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