Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Give me some Reassurance!

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Lost1

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Okay fact of the matter im still kinda stuck on one girl that seems to be stringing me along. Telling me I should be around when "her" year of being single is up.. And I still have that feeling like we arent finished even though she has LJBF'ed me. She still gives me all kinds of mixed signals. Like asking me to hang all the friggen time and sitting soo close that she's basically on my lap when we're just waiting to be seated at a restaurant with lots of room to sit and she sits almost on my lap.

But on the other hand I have an awesome girl in my pocket. Meaning alls i gotta do is ask and she's "mine." I'm afraid if I go all the way to commited with this girl I may have second thoughts later and totally screw this girl over.

Any advice would be appreciated and Im sorry this doesnt help the forum at all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ljbf'ed!!! Means get the hell out of there!!!!

Only tallk to woman romantically right away and then you will never be there friend!!


Here is your reassurance --- I can assure you that she doesn't want you!!!
 
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I laugh when guys say that girls give mixed signals.

You know why?

Because there's no "theory" for women. And we as guys, we like to put women in a box, and place a "theory" on them, so when they start acting one way then another way....we get confused because we don't know how to figure them out.

That's why you need to DROP your theories. All theories you have developed on women need to be DROPPED immediately.

The only thing you need to do is love your sexuality and love theres. Love sexuality, thus, you love life.

Embrace your horniness, learn how to control it and speak to a girl through your body and horniness that you are the best thing going.

Read my thread in the tips section, read througout that thread.

What you will learn is much different than what you've been taught, but it will wake you up a bit.
 
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Well, yeah there is the possibility that she likes you. But seriously man, waiting around for her to realize that she really does want you afterall, that's not really a very smart way to live life is it? Haven't you learned anything since joining this forum 3 years ago?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lost1 said:
Okay fact of the matter im still kinda stuck on one girl that seems to be stringing me along. Telling me I should be around when "her" year of being single is up.. And I still have that feeling like we arent finished even though she has LJBF'ed me. She still gives me all kinds of mixed signals. Like asking me to hang all the friggen time and sitting soo close that she's basically on my lap when we're just waiting to be seated at a restaurant with lots of room to sit and she sits almost on my lap.

But on the other hand I have an awesome girl in my pocket. Meaning alls i gotta do is ask and she's "mine." I'm afraid if I go all the way to commited with this girl I may have second thoughts later and totally screw this girl over.

Any advice would be appreciated and Im sorry this doesnt help the forum at all.
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After reading that, I'm going to ask you to excuse any rudeness you find in this post.

Fvck off, go find you own reassurance. I'm not giving it to you, NO ONE EVER GETS THEIR ONE-ITIS! Understand? You are going to be regretting that fact that this chick playing cat fvcking mouse ruined your chances with another hottie.

Forget about her, come one mate, you can't figure this out yourself? This is the feeling that you are suppose to give women. Those mixed signals, she's doing exactly what we do to women to you, and you still fall for it? What are you? Stupid?

Get the fvck out of there, go fvck 10 other women, that's your solution.

Never, ever let a chick have that much control over you life, ever.
 
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After reading this I have concluded that I sound extreamely stupid. The signs were right infront of my face already I just didnt want to see them. Thanks for your help!


I just needed to sleep on it I guess, I'm seein clearly now.:rolleyes:
 
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