"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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give me some hair advice

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the12thplanet

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time for a different hairstyle. check out my myspace pictures

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...en=F9F69B4E-D339-13B1-BBF7DDC076BA1C8D6548489

and tell me if you have any ideas of what type of haircut and style would look best with my face. the hair color is like the one of me with the headphones on.



and to whoevers the mod, dont shut it down and give me a search thread that doesnt help at all. thanks bros.

oh if you dont have a myspace account heres my main page

http://www.myspace.com/bentheredonethat
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Go to a stylist and ask them what they think would look good. It's their job to know this stuff, and usually they're pretty good.
 
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Ok...was trolling around on your myspace...and please tell me you met up with "Dani!"

What an opening...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by floorman81
Ok...was trolling around on your myspace...and please tell me you met up with "Dani!"

What an opening...
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unfortunately at the time i was preoccupied with some less attractive girl. after that i thought itd be rude to ask her about it when i had left it for soooo long. *smacks head* stupid stupid me
 
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