"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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give me some hair advice

the12thplanet

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time for a different hairstyle. check out my myspace pictures

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...en=F9F69B4E-D339-13B1-BBF7DDC076BA1C8D6548489

and tell me if you have any ideas of what type of haircut and style would look best with my face. the hair color is like the one of me with the headphones on.



and to whoevers the mod, dont shut it down and give me a search thread that doesnt help at all. thanks bros.

oh if you dont have a myspace account heres my main page

http://www.myspace.com/bentheredonethat
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vincent

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Go to a stylist and ask them what they think would look good. It's their job to know this stuff, and usually they're pretty good.
 

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Ok...was trolling around on your myspace...and please tell me you met up with "Dani!"

What an opening...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the12thplanet

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Originally posted by floorman81
Ok...was trolling around on your myspace...and please tell me you met up with "Dani!"

What an opening...
unfortunately at the time i was preoccupied with some less attractive girl. after that i thought itd be rude to ask her about it when i had left it for soooo long. *smacks head* stupid stupid me
 
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