"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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give me some hair advice

the12thplanet

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time for a different hairstyle. check out my myspace pictures

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...en=F9F69B4E-D339-13B1-BBF7DDC076BA1C8D6548489

and tell me if you have any ideas of what type of haircut and style would look best with my face. the hair color is like the one of me with the headphones on.



and to whoevers the mod, dont shut it down and give me a search thread that doesnt help at all. thanks bros.

oh if you dont have a myspace account heres my main page

http://www.myspace.com/bentheredonethat
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vincent

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Go to a stylist and ask them what they think would look good. It's their job to know this stuff, and usually they're pretty good.
 

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Ok...was trolling around on your myspace...and please tell me you met up with "Dani!"

What an opening...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the12thplanet

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Originally posted by floorman81
Ok...was trolling around on your myspace...and please tell me you met up with "Dani!"

What an opening...
unfortunately at the time i was preoccupied with some less attractive girl. after that i thought itd be rude to ask her about it when i had left it for soooo long. *smacks head* stupid stupid me
 
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