"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Give me some examples of being more direct about what I want, because apparently I’m doing it wrong

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What it means when we say direct, or if I say direct, it means you are a man and you are there for sex with her.
If you are carrying the persona that you don’t want “friends” she will still assume that’s what you are. Does this make sense? You are carrying “friend/no-friends” micro body language and micro mannerisms. She’s way ahead of you.

Now if you are there for SEX, you should be able to easily dismiss her. She will read THAT.

Are you there for sex or for a girlfriend/wife? She will read that too and default you to friend (stand by dude)

You are operating with the wrong model. How you think is messing you up. A good player is there to fuk every hole she has and she likes the feeling it gives her. She is desired.

You are operating with your programming from birth. And it’s reinforced every day.

Men are dogs
Men are rapists
Men should not want sex from us (we will let you know)
Man is the demise of woman and the patriarchy must fall.

There’s tons of it. It’s ok to insult her and her warped value index. Have fun with it. Go opposite of everything she thinks if you want. Better to polarize her and she thinks you are an a-hole thaN to be her little backup dude as if she’s queen of the universe. LMAO
Well said! I know what I’m dealing with. She’s the type that says she doesn’t want this or that but let some other attractive broad cone sniffing around, she will get jealous as hell. I never said anything about relationship, she’s in her head I think coming up with all this stuff.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Now she's got to go through the motions of recruiting one by investing her time and spreading her legs hahaha
Oh darn. She has to use her slvt weapons again. It’s such a pain. Some guy grunting on her. The extra shower to make sure he’s off of her. Such a pain.
 
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