What it means when we say direct, or if I say direct, it means you are a man and you are there for sex with her.
If you are carrying the persona that you don’t want “friends” she will still assume that’s what you are. Does this make sense? You are carrying “friend/no-friends” micro body language and micro mannerisms. She’s way ahead of you.
Now if you are there for SEX, you should be able to easily dismiss her. She will read THAT.
Are you there for sex or for a girlfriend/wife? She will read that too and default you to friend (stand by dude)
You are operating with the wrong model. How you think is messing you up. A good player is there to fuk every hole she has and she likes the feeling it gives her. She is desired.
You are operating with your programming from birth. And it’s reinforced every day.
Men are dogs
Men are rapists
Men should not want sex from us (we will let you know)
Man is the demise of woman and the patriarchy must fall.
There’s tons of it. It’s ok to insult her and her warped value index. Have fun with it. Go opposite of everything she thinks if you want. Better to polarize her and she thinks you are an a-hole thaN to be her little backup dude as if she’s queen of the universe. LMAO