“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Give me ONE tip for marriage and fatherhood.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
this is very true. I have a very good wife I know this. not all wives are as good as mine is to me. I've had 2 friends / associates get divorces while we've been married and one of them was textbook striaght out of the playbook, hid money for 6 months, divorced, took him for everything and is dating someone she had her eye on for years now.
A bad wife is a very bad thing to have. But my entire point is there are dozens of dozens of thousands of posts on this forum about how marriage and kids are the devil and evil and you don't awnt to do them but the OP clearly has made some type of ****ing life decision where these 2 things are going to happen beujcase he didnt' ask if he should do it, he asked for advice, and I don't think it's fair nor right for people to sit there and tell him to **** off, **** marriage, **** kids.
Some men actualy want kids. **** I want another. Some men actually want marriage. Not all men dream of being 35 years old and spinning plates some men wANT the house and the 2 kids and the dog. Some, a very few, quit jacking off long eough and quit keyboard DJing long enough to actually go out and talk to women and they met one that doesn't suck and isn't bat**** crazy and they have been dating the same girl for a year or even 2 now and they want to know what's next. There is not enough grown people discussions like that on this forum. Bunch of bitter PMO crazed betas. If you don't agree with the topic, STFU and leave the subject. There are plenty of ****ing subjects that I don't agree on that I just do not get into. But Mr saturdaynight here thinks he's being so slick and cool by jumping in a thread where a guy is asking for real advice by saying "lol dude **** marriage" **** you \
**** pisses me off to no end.
I'm not a "bitter PMO crazed beta," but a lawyer with a basic knowledge of domestic law, several close friends who specialize in it, some friends who have been absolutely ruined by marriage and kids, and LOTS of married friends, a strong majority of them, who are miserable and depressed.backbreaker said:
What there are too many of in this country are men who fall into marriage without thinking carefully about it, hoping to please a woman or their mother, family, or some social ideal they think they need to meet. There are thousands upon thousands of mainstream sources telling men to "man up, grow up, settle down, don't be selfish, put away childish things, get married, etc." basically do what women want men to do at every junction. THIS place is different, one of a few places with a different POV generally. Sorry if you don't like that, but it is what it is.
IMO, and in my experience, marriage and kids is as risky as taking up heroin as a hobby. For those who do it and succeed, more power to you, but I just don't want young men thinking that longshot lifelong propositions make good bets in this day and age without very, very careful consideration.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
All of my 3 older brothers are all divorce. Need I say more? LOL
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Okay so forgive me if anyone has already said this because I only read the first few replies:
Don't let your kids play too much video games. It causes ADHD in the future. Trust me, I would know (and no one better ****ing ask how I know. You don't need scientific evidence to back up how every little detail about life, I mean non of the stuff here on SoSuave is scientifically proven). Instead, let them go outside and play, discover the world on their own. Let them learn through experience, let them experience everything, but keep a watchful eye on them so that when they REALLY need help with something, you can see if they can overcome the obstacle or you can help them if they might get harmed in the outcome. Also, don't just give them knowledge about how cruel the world is or tell them what you know. They won't fully understand it unless they see it on the news. Try and get them to be social too. You should put them in sports and activities, BUT YOU DO NOT FORCE THEM TO IF THEY DON'T WANT TO!!!!! Why? Because when they get older, they will not want to do it and thus leading them to want them to play video games too much and not be social and not have as many friends and then running into the same problems as you when it comes to their social life as you did. And then they will get hurt emotionally and you don't want that because then they will come on here and learn how life really is and they won't be as happy with life as they could have been if they had been more social which could have kept them innocent in the situation yet naturally having great social skills.
Get them exercising at a young age. It gets them to be more naturally athletic when they are older. Have them run around on the grass outside like midget maniacs because you play the big bad monster and they want to run away so that you don't 'take their nose away' or something like that. You know, just use your imagination. They will love it and so will you. Have them eat healthy ALL the time. Don't give them any sweets at their baby stage because that can affect their health and strength + endurance as teens. Always make your sons specifically want to be tough and strong. How? You start from a young age saying that men are tough and strong, that they don't care what other think of them and that they can can carry anything. And tell them that they are men and that they need to be tough and strong. And say it with a confident smile because then they will want to make you proud and try and be tough and strong.
Don't always give them what they want either. You have to treat them almost like women; reward them with good behavior like love and affection, punish them with bad behavior by making them feel guilty (and NOT by taking away love and affection, UNLESS they do something horrid).
Also, try to keep the family together. Stay alpha but keep the family together and keep trying to have fun with your wife too. Not only that but keep trying to have more diverse 'fun' too and not the same old boring thing all the time, I mean use your imagination to 'spice' things up a bit
. That'll keep her in line.
And one last thing: look at how you were raised, try to remember things that really stuck out to you as a kid. Try to delve into your earliest memories. Now look and see what your parents did right and what they did wrong, try and remember how you felt in each situation. Try to mimic the good of what your parents did and try and see what they should have done when they were wrong.
That's why I said so much bunched up gibberish above because I was remembering everything that happened to me when I was younger and it was such an overflow of what my parents should have done vs. what they did and I just tried to tell you it as fast as possible. This probably doesn't even make sense either. I'll stop.
Don't let your kids play too much video games. It causes ADHD in the future. Trust me, I would know (and no one better ****ing ask how I know. You don't need scientific evidence to back up how every little detail about life, I mean non of the stuff here on SoSuave is scientifically proven). Instead, let them go outside and play, discover the world on their own. Let them learn through experience, let them experience everything, but keep a watchful eye on them so that when they REALLY need help with something, you can see if they can overcome the obstacle or you can help them if they might get harmed in the outcome. Also, don't just give them knowledge about how cruel the world is or tell them what you know. They won't fully understand it unless they see it on the news. Try and get them to be social too. You should put them in sports and activities, BUT YOU DO NOT FORCE THEM TO IF THEY DON'T WANT TO!!!!! Why? Because when they get older, they will not want to do it and thus leading them to want them to play video games too much and not be social and not have as many friends and then running into the same problems as you when it comes to their social life as you did. And then they will get hurt emotionally and you don't want that because then they will come on here and learn how life really is and they won't be as happy with life as they could have been if they had been more social which could have kept them innocent in the situation yet naturally having great social skills.
Get them exercising at a young age. It gets them to be more naturally athletic when they are older. Have them run around on the grass outside like midget maniacs because you play the big bad monster and they want to run away so that you don't 'take their nose away' or something like that. You know, just use your imagination. They will love it and so will you. Have them eat healthy ALL the time. Don't give them any sweets at their baby stage because that can affect their health and strength + endurance as teens. Always make your sons specifically want to be tough and strong. How? You start from a young age saying that men are tough and strong, that they don't care what other think of them and that they can can carry anything. And tell them that they are men and that they need to be tough and strong. And say it with a confident smile because then they will want to make you proud and try and be tough and strong.
Don't always give them what they want either. You have to treat them almost like women; reward them with good behavior like love and affection, punish them with bad behavior by making them feel guilty (and NOT by taking away love and affection, UNLESS they do something horrid).
Also, try to keep the family together. Stay alpha but keep the family together and keep trying to have fun with your wife too. Not only that but keep trying to have more diverse 'fun' too and not the same old boring thing all the time, I mean use your imagination to 'spice' things up a bit
. That'll keep her in line. And one last thing: look at how you were raised, try to remember things that really stuck out to you as a kid. Try to delve into your earliest memories. Now look and see what your parents did right and what they did wrong, try and remember how you felt in each situation. Try to mimic the good of what your parents did and try and see what they should have done when they were wrong.
That's why I said so much bunched up gibberish above because I was remembering everything that happened to me when I was younger and it was such an overflow of what my parents should have done vs. what they did and I just tried to tell you it as fast as possible. This probably doesn't even make sense either. I'll stop.
Advice?
All women are PSYCHO.
Sex after marriage ALWAYS diminishes.
A lot of the time, it isn't your fault, but you will ALWAYS be blamed.
You're NEVER right. Even when you are.
There's a lot of stuff that goes on in a woman's head. Stuff that we will never understand. There are times that you need to leave the house, or allow her to storm off.
You cant fix it.
In today's world women are very self centered. Be very selective of a wife that exhibits good morals, and is selfless.
Wait at least 1 year before contemplating children. Don't have children if the relationship is unstable.
Be prepared for divorce.
Be happy with or without her.
If we can sin against God, we can easily sin against each other. Be willing to forgive.
Love her
All women are PSYCHO.
Sex after marriage ALWAYS diminishes.
A lot of the time, it isn't your fault, but you will ALWAYS be blamed.
You're NEVER right. Even when you are.
There's a lot of stuff that goes on in a woman's head. Stuff that we will never understand. There are times that you need to leave the house, or allow her to storm off.
You cant fix it.
In today's world women are very self centered. Be very selective of a wife that exhibits good morals, and is selfless.
Wait at least 1 year before contemplating children. Don't have children if the relationship is unstable.
Be prepared for divorce.
Be happy with or without her.
If we can sin against God, we can easily sin against each other. Be willing to forgive.
Love her
I agree that women have changed and are now much more selfish. In the 50s they catered to men and now it's the opposite. Marriage is a huge financial risk for men. That being said, I wouldn't mind having a mini-me.
YawataNoKami
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Use a surrogate mother.........is cheaper.