"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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give me inspiration and passion

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dude04

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i don't enjoy what i am doing these days. everyday is a routine: wake up, work, home, sleep. i don't have many friends but that don't bother me anymore. i do go out on ocassions to bars or the park alone but it don't excite me. there is no excitement in my life. recently, the only thing i enjoy is watching movies (i don't think). i want to find a challenge. i want to interact with cool fun people. i want passion in my life.

in conclusion, i can't find my passions. i have been waiting for the day where i really hit bottom and an epiphany will come. that day is not happening and i am tired of waiting. i want to discover it today so i can live a good life.

someone give me tips. someone give me inspirations. someone save my life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Find something you like to do in your spare time. Besides tv and computer. Read a book, learn to play an instrument, see your friends, lift weights..
 
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No one can give it to you. You need to find it within yourself.

Meditate on the question - What do I love? What do I want? I want to know what I want. I want to find my life's passion.

Trust me you'll find it.

This is not a quick, straight forward process. Nothing worth having is.
 
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Furyguy

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Save some money for a little while, then quit your job, pick up shop and move to a new city/state/country. Find a job doing something completely random that will let you meet new people. Bartend, bus tables, sell cars, drive a taxi, give f*cking bicycle tours... stop worrying about money, live day to day and have fun while you still can. You might find something that you'll love until you die.

It's a fresh beginning and a chance for new experiences. If you really are at rock bottom then you have nothing to lose by trying it.
 
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i pretty much have the same routine...so so****ed up
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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