"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
give me a line or something to use so that i can start approaching
- Thread starter metrhoe
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
a) funny
or
b) interesting
Practice on your male friends and also on any girls you come across. Become a more outgoing person. If you can talk to random *people* and come across as like-able, you'll be able to talk to girls. End of story.
SELF-MASTERY
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Yeah you come on down..
seriously dude read the forum and search for cold approach journals and learn from other guys experiences..... We even have two active journals on the main forum.
here's a link to an active journal.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=84204
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
white cloud 8
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Tha Realnezz
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Talk spanish,compliment her."You don't wanna talk to me","You don't talk"...shoot.Same things girls to do guys.
wordism
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lol just playin.. but might actually with some girls.. depending on the type of girl she is.. or comes off as.. and if she actually knows what fly means
thederekeffect1
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Sure thing. The magic word is... Tada. Now, would you like the red pill or the blue pill?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
paraguayandj
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