"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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give me a line or something to use so that i can start approaching

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i dont approach cause i dont know what to say i have nothing to say can you guys give me something (OTHER THAN HI, BECAUSE I CANT BACK IT UP) so that i can get more comfortable approaching and then will start going in natural
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Learn to be either
a) funny
or
b) interesting

Practice on your male friends and also on any girls you come across. Become a more outgoing person. If you can talk to random *people* and come across as like-able, you'll be able to talk to girls. End of story.
 

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Check out PUA material (www.bristollair.com). I know that's taboo for some people, but you gotta give it to them, PUAs have their **** down to a T in terms of what to say. You might be pleasantly surprised.
 

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Gonzalo said:
Check out PUA material (www.bristollair.com). I know that's taboo for some people, but you gotta give it to them, PUAs have their **** down to a T in terms of what to say. You might be pleasantly surprised.
what is there for me to use? canned lines to get started?
 

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Come here and get this game I'm about to throw at you.......

Yeah you come on down..

seriously dude read the forum and search for cold approach journals and learn from other guys experiences..... We even have two active journals on the main forum.

here's a link to an active journal.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=84204
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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white cloud 8

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"...Hi" thats a good start
 

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I just wassup or nod my head if I catch them looking at me or they look back.Maybe even grab there hand if they're smiling.

Talk spanish,compliment her."You don't wanna talk to me","You don't talk"...shoot.Same things girls to do guys.
 

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"Sooo you think you fly huh??" with a slight smile

lol just playin.. but might actually with some girls.. depending on the type of girl she is.. or comes off as.. and if she actually knows what fly means
 

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Tha Realnezz said:
Talk spanish,compliment her."You don't wanna talk to me","You don't talk"...shoot.Same things girls to do guys.
wtf are u talking about

**** off to the guy that said hi
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nice ass! That usually does it for me. It doesn't work but you know it will get the conversation started. They usually say something like: Excuse me? or Thanks!
 

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Obsidian said:
Learn to be either
a) funny
or
b) interesting

Practice on your male friends and also on any girls you come across. Become a more outgoing person. If you can talk to random *people* and come across as like-able, you'll be able to talk to girls. End of story.
I second this. If you struggle to make conversation, you need to develop your conversational skills rather than spit lines.
 
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