"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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give her my # now or make her wait?

Mr.Freestyler19

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there is this girl tht i probably wont see until next year....i added her on facebook.......we hav started to get to know each other....i know she likes me....now she messaged me and asked for my #...,should i message her now my # or should i make her wait?????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bladerunner

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Don't give her your number without getting hers first, because if she has your number and you don't have hers, she's in a position of control, which you don't want.
 

Bladerunner

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Exactly. If she asks for your number, just say "Not until you give me yours first! =D" or something to that effect, and when she gives it to you text her something entertaining to show that it's you. A favorite of mine is "KABOOM!!!", followed by either "I'm all about flashy entrances =D" or "That was the sound of me rocking your world =P" depending on she responds to the initial text, if she does at all. If she doesn't reply, it doesn't matter.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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