"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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give her my # now or make her wait?

Mr.Freestyler19

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there is this girl tht i probably wont see until next year....i added her on facebook.......we hav started to get to know each other....i know she likes me....now she messaged me and asked for my #...,should i message her now my # or should i make her wait?????
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't give her your number without getting hers first, because if she has your number and you don't have hers, she's in a position of control, which you don't want.
 

Bladerunner

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Exactly. If she asks for your number, just say "Not until you give me yours first! =D" or something to that effect, and when she gives it to you text her something entertaining to show that it's you. A favorite of mine is "KABOOM!!!", followed by either "I'm all about flashy entrances =D" or "That was the sound of me rocking your world =P" depending on she responds to the initial text, if she does at all. If she doesn't reply, it doesn't matter.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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