"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Give examples of two steps forward, one step back in each phase of dating

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Example scenarios:

You got her number. What are the two steps forward, one step back here. Do you text, setup a date then cancel?

You went out on the first date. Now you've parted ways. What are the two steps forward, one step back here. Do you tell her you just want to be friends then text her out of the blue and setup another date?

You escalated physically (especially after telling her LJBF). For example you kissed her. What are the two steps forward, one step back here. Do you stop kissing and go back to just holding hands instead of escalating more to pound her? lol.

I ask because although I have ****y comedy down well, I struggle with two steps forward and one step back, so that is one thing I am trying to master.

I've learned long ago how to spark attraction by teasing with ****y comedy, but amplifying it via this technique so that I'm not so predictable is what I'm working to master. Don't get me wrong, I've had more than my share of women, but I recognize that I don't do this technique very well YET so that I close more deals.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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