"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girth of a girl

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Hya

Just a quick one. Is there any reliable way to determine the size of a woman through a picture? Been chatting to a girl and I've managed to rapport out of her a decent full length body shot photo but just not sure how reliable it is. I know girls are notorious for being bigger in real life

I'd post the picture, but I don't know how

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If there are no full body shots, assume its north of 200 pounds.

Most girls without big bodies will put some kind of body shot in there, the lack of one is...

not a good sign... unless you like larger women, in which case, its time to celebrate!
 

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Look at the arms bro. That should give you a general idea if there's no full body shot.
 

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No body shots = fat
Body shots in winter clothing = fat
Pictures taken from weird angles = fat
Low quality/blurry/overexposed pics = fat
Describes her body type as average or athletic = fat
 

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I actually met a chick from online who had zero body shots, just two face shots. I asked her about it and her response was: "I get no complaints."

Turns out her body was phenomenal. She had initiated contact with me and her was good, and she seemed cool, so I gave it a shot....and it paid off.

That's a rare case though.

I've met with quite a few who did the weird angle deal. I even met one that admitted to cropping her picture. That kind of stuff is more of the norm. Always ask for another picture before meeting, and if something doesn't seem right, it usually isn't. That's why, when I was still online, first dates were always a "quick" drink or coffee for a meet and greet. She turns out to be loose in all the wrong places, then slam your drink "it was nice meeting you." and get the fvck out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wolfgang D

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Bokanovsky said:
No body shots = fat
Body shots in winter clothing = fat
Pictures taken from weird angles = fat
Low quality/blurry/overexposed pics = fat
Describes her body type as average or athletic = fat
Well, I talked to a girl with a full body-shot pic, but she was in a Michelin-Man costume for Halloween. Her screen name is Miss Piggy, I met her on a website for cupcake afficionados. I'm just not sure ... what do you think?
 

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Wolfgang D said:
Well, I talked to a girl with a full body-shot pic, but she was in a Michelin-Man costume for Halloween. Her screen name is Miss Piggy, I met her on a website for cupcake afficionados. I'm just not sure ... what do you think?
I think that you should marry her :D
 
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