Girls/women watching shows like "The Pick-up Artist"

[KarmaSutra]

Li'l K and I are avid fans of Mystery's show The Pick-up artist. She will be thirteen soon and is vastly ahead of young lady's her age. She can already tell me how the guys fvcked up in the approach, the conversation, etc. . . She can explain, in great detail, the importance of confidence. That's no accident. The way kids in school interact with each other is vastly different than when I was a wee little tyke picking my scabs and boogers, just as it's different from when my parents walked 10 miles barefoot and uphill through snow to get thier little school on the prairie. To think otherwise is not only unhealthy it's unrealistic. The access kids have to information is a 180 from the soup cans on a string and smoke signals we would use to get the news and the word out.

Now, lot's of guys are going to inevitably freak out and think "Oh God, they're going to see all of our secret, most occult teachings out in the open!" "What are we going to do if we step to a 3 set and they immediately know I'm using Mystery Method or Badboy or whack Deangelo pickup lines?" "Oh Christ, NO!" Men uncomfortable with thier own ability to breathe and relax and trust thier gut will tuck tail and hide behind thier monitor waiting for the coast to clear. These are the girls you guys will be trying to spit game and they're onto you. They know the lingo, they know the robotic machinations, learn to live with the fact that they know.

So what's the remedy? Just as in years before and years to come, a guy needs to be comfortable in his skin. All of these tricks and vernacular are just ways of manipulation. Not deceit, manipulation. Fruitful, earnest encapsulation in the confidence of masulinity is what women find alluring and also what activates new circuitry in our brains .

Li'l K and Mrs. K are vital in my understanding of what women think and feel and how they interact on a socio-psychological front. For that I owe them everything.

 

[Stuntmann]

So you saying Mystery is faking. I bet you're confused and off target. Somehow, I get an impression you need to prove yourself, doesn't matter to who. Mystery is fake, Deangelo is wack, Badboy is whatever. I'm THE man! THE Mack of a minute! Whatever, you think everybody else is stupid.

 

[KarmaSutra]

No. I'm not saying he or any of the other myriad of seduction/pickup artists are faking. What I am saying is that girls you and guys like you will be encountering are onto the game.

By the bitter vindictiveness in your reply it's quite clear that all you have are stupid fvcking lines. Nothing else. It hit a nerve because what I wrote is absolute and true.

Re-read the post.

 

[Stuntmann]

I got it! They must now resist the REAL men and go for the NICE guy! No need to learn game anymore!

 

[KarmaSutra]

I got it! They must now resist the REAL men and go for the NICE guy! No need to learn game anymore!

Luckily you're a NICE guy.

 

[Stuntmann]

There you go. You're THE mack! and I'm the NICE guy. You think I'm stupid. You're incapable of showing respect to other people. That's a flaw many nice guys suffer.


I bet you going to have a lot of fun with this thread.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Goddamnit. I didn't say you were or are stupid (you did). If you don't have the ability to contribute to my thread get the fvck out.

If you have a valid argument I'd love to debate it with you. If all you have is bile I don't have the time.

So what is you argument so we can talk it through?

(At least you're grammatically sound my friend )

 

[Slick101]

This show is not going to ruin anyone who fully understand pick-up. You dont have to copy them or their routines... Juss know the outline and Create your own material...

I actually use the pick up artist as my Opener Which works GREAT!!!....

 

[KarmaSutra]

No tv show, no book, no movie, no mp3, nothing external should affect your game. It's getting to that point when one can't be bothered with bullsh1t and stay focused.

Props to you youngblood for using the show as an opener. It's useful as entertainment.

 

[Slick101]

No tv show, no book, no movie, no mp3, nothing external should affect your game. It's getting to that point when one can't be bothered with bullsh1t and stay focused.

Props to you youngblood for using the show as an opener. It's useful as entertainment.

And to be quite Honest... Almost no body knows about that show.... LOL....

It makes approaches easier thoo....

Young blood?

 

[KarmaSutra]

In theory, in most womens' minds: PUA=cheesy & Cheesy=good.

In theory, yes. Reality, no. The only thing cheesy is good for is macaroni or pizza.

I'm not saying not to go out and be goof-ballish or slapsticky but that's not the same as cheesy.

Cheesy (as taken from the Karmictionary) [chē'zē]

1. (noun) Subordinate or second string; a yes man.
2. (adjective) Declasse' or imperfect; good for nothing.

The rest of your post was sound brother.

 

[Sandow]

Karma Sutra, don't you have a Cosmo to read?

Never listen to a woman's advice guys.

 

[Kev07]

Either Stuntmann is a troll, or he just completely missed the point of this thread.


Seriously, unless you're going around doing the EXACT same things that Mystery and friends are doing, no one will even know. Negs, C&F all that good stuff should be rolling off your tongue NATURALLY.


Just remember that theres a difference between being a PUA, learning all these routines, going around doing the same thing on every girl, etc, and being a better MAN, a Don Juan to say, that is confident and knows what he's doing. Shlt, I don't even go around thinking what I say as "negs" or "C&F" anymore, it's just a part of me.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

.... Negs, C&F all that good stuff should be rolling off your tongue NATURALLY....

True but that takes creativity and a lot of guys would rather use another person's work. Less effort with a greater chance of payback (so they think).

 

[KarmaSutra]

Karma Sutra, don't you have a Cosmo to read?

Never listen to a woman's advice guys.

Uh huh . . .Cosmo, Glamour, Allure, Vanity Fair are all insights into the female mental state. I'll gladly pickup a Cosmo than memorize every line of Star Trek weekly.

Either Stuntmann is a troll, or he just completely missed the point of this thread.

Seems there more than one tunnel living fvcktard in my thread . . .

 

[Stuntmann]

Shlt, I don't even go around thinking what I say as "negs" or "C&F" anymore, it's just a part of me.

Why is that? The method became part of you, perhaps it's not mystery method anymore, it's Kev01 method? That stuff you take and make something that works for you, make it your own. It's obvious and I'm surprised no one points that out.

Either Stuntmann is a troll, or he just completely missed the point of this thread

You too don't know how to address people with respect. Who's a troll here. :flowers:

 

[Kev07]

Maybe you should read the thread before you post, instead of just reading the title and then coming in to spew the same stuff you spewed in other "pick up artists" thread.

Your first reply has almost no relevance to the actual thread itself.

 

[BlackJackal]

Well... I dont care about that show or what girls know. Cause when I whip it out, they're still gonna let me hit.

 

[penkitten]

Well... I dont care about that show or what girls know. Cause when I whip it out, they're still gonna let me hit.

where is it that you hang out at, that you can just approach a woman, whip your thing out and she will fall to her knees and tell you to just hit it?

 

[Magma]

I was wondering when this thread was going to be addressed! I have been watching the show from the beginning, for a couple of reasons. First, the concept intrigued me. Second, and most important, I wanted to see what was being presented so that I knew what women watching the show would soon know. It's no different than the football coach who knows what tapes the opposition are watching of them. In line with this analogy, the coach then alters his game plan accordingly.

I, personally, enjoy the "game" of seduction. I know many of us here feel the same way. For me it's an exercise in social psychology. I get enjoyment out of attempting to artfully manipulate social situations and the natural dynamics that exist between men and women. This is why I've enjoyed The Pickup Artist so much.

I can't remember who said it earlier, but they said they've tried using the show as a basis for an opener. I've thought about doing it, but haven't yet. I would imagine that it's a great opener! However, simply because the fundamentals of attraction and seduction have been somewhat codified by the show, the individual delivery and style of each of us will trump any knowledge women have of our "games." My two cents...

BTW, anybody want to lay odds on the remaining contestants?