"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls with X-BFs as Friends???

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whowy04

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Fellas -

I'm at a loss for words with this one. I've been dating this girl for about 2 months. Everything's going pretty much perfectly. However, it's come to my attention that my girl has more than one guy that she's dated seriously as freinds still. I think one is because he's friends with all her friends and so on... but the other one, i think will fade away eventually.

Bottom line, this **** bothers me. I know as time progresses this will only start to effect more negatively. I've tamed myself to not allow this insecurity to affect the relationship but have not conquered how badly it affects me.

What's your opinion on this? Do you think these guys will fade away eventually once we start getting more serious?

Should I speak up? Any advicie will be greatly appreciated...

Thanks guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All hot girls have cyck on the side.
 
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Maybe

but not this one, especially since I KNOW I'm all she needs. Actually, from last night's experience, I'm more than enough.
 
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They may or may not fade away. Girls like having people around them who make them feel better, etc. (actually, I've been friends with some STRs or hook ups that didn't work out -- I don't see the harm personally and I may really not care about trying to hook up with them again).

The real questions are, do you feel there is any risk of cheating (does she have a roving eye or is she the kind of tortured soul who accidentally hooks up because she needs something going on in her life)? Do you think these guys are trying to get back in with her?

If not, then it doesn't matter that much.
 
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These guys have already got the "Ho" ticket to your GF.....

They have already fvcked her - and she's had their C@cks in her mouth...

Seriously though...

Why would you want these guys hanging around you? Why would she have these guys around?

destructuve I think. No no?

You are probably young - and so is she - hence the ex's around.

I always have to questions a chick's like this mentality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i'd avoid having a relationship with a girl like this.
 
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Open your eyes and ears when her ex's are around. If there is chemistry there (and you will pick up on it), then you might have some problems. If there is no chemistry anymore, then I would see that as a good thing, because it means that she doesn't turn into a psycho ex with a handful of restraining orders against her.
 
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