"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls with X-BFs as Friends???

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Fellas -

I'm at a loss for words with this one. I've been dating this girl for about 2 months. Everything's going pretty much perfectly. However, it's come to my attention that my girl has more than one guy that she's dated seriously as freinds still. I think one is because he's friends with all her friends and so on... but the other one, i think will fade away eventually.

Bottom line, this **** bothers me. I know as time progresses this will only start to effect more negatively. I've tamed myself to not allow this insecurity to affect the relationship but have not conquered how badly it affects me.

What's your opinion on this? Do you think these guys will fade away eventually once we start getting more serious?

Should I speak up? Any advicie will be greatly appreciated...

Thanks guys!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All hot girls have cyck on the side.
 
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Maybe

but not this one, especially since I KNOW I'm all she needs. Actually, from last night's experience, I'm more than enough.
 
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They may or may not fade away. Girls like having people around them who make them feel better, etc. (actually, I've been friends with some STRs or hook ups that didn't work out -- I don't see the harm personally and I may really not care about trying to hook up with them again).

The real questions are, do you feel there is any risk of cheating (does she have a roving eye or is she the kind of tortured soul who accidentally hooks up because she needs something going on in her life)? Do you think these guys are trying to get back in with her?

If not, then it doesn't matter that much.
 
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These guys have already got the "Ho" ticket to your GF.....

They have already fvcked her - and she's had their C@cks in her mouth...

Seriously though...

Why would you want these guys hanging around you? Why would she have these guys around?

destructuve I think. No no?

You are probably young - and so is she - hence the ex's around.

I always have to questions a chick's like this mentality.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i'd avoid having a relationship with a girl like this.
 
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Open your eyes and ears when her ex's are around. If there is chemistry there (and you will pick up on it), then you might have some problems. If there is no chemistry anymore, then I would see that as a good thing, because it means that she doesn't turn into a psycho ex with a handful of restraining orders against her.
 
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