"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls with their MOthers

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fash

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Politely approach and ask her mother if it is ok for you to introduce your self to her daughter.

Simple.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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It could depend on age but i think it could be rather important to, at least at first make sure you are not isolating her mother. Dont pretend like shes not there. Acknowledge her mother and dont be afriad to talk to both of them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WesCottII

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Personally I'd leave it. Too much hassle, plenty of single girls.

If i HAD to, start with the mother pawn her to meet the girl.
 

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I like to meet mothers. Talk to the mother first to break the ice, and if she likes you there is a good chance she will introduce you to her daughter.
 

Blackdragon5095

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I don't do it. I get sick of the mother trying to talk for the daughter or when you neg hit the girl the mother makes up for it. :trouble:
 
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Well, looks like my mom can come in handy for something. My mom can befriend her mom, while I take the girl.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sarge the lot of them!

:cool: :up: ;) :D :rockon: :flowers: :yes: :box:
 
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