donArjun
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What do you do if HB is with her mother ?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girls with their MOthers
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
AngelusPUA
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Approch ask the mother if its ok to talk to her sister...... get it?
check_mate_kid_uk
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It could depend on age but i think it could be rather important to, at least at first make sure you are not isolating her mother. Dont pretend like shes not there. Acknowledge her mother and dont be afriad to talk to both of them.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
WesCottII
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Personally I'd leave it. Too much hassle, plenty of single girls.
If i HAD to, start with the mother pawn her to meet the girl.
If i HAD to, start with the mother pawn her to meet the girl.
Blackdragon5095
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I don't do it. I get sick of the mother trying to talk for the daughter or when you neg hit the girl the mother makes up for it. :trouble:
INXS
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Nice.OldMan said:
Anyone test this..? If so..results?
Luke Skywalker
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Well, looks like my mom can come in handy for something. My mom can befriend her mom, while I take the girl.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MightyMate
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My gf is speakin too much with mother. It pisses me off.
But mainly its not a prob to get girl with mom. Just be nice to mom, more than to the girl.
But mainly its not a prob to get girl with mom. Just be nice to mom, more than to the girl.
donArjun
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You guys are brilliant.Fash said: