"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girls with submissive personalities

Life-Trainee

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I've met this girl through friends. She's got very "whatever" kind of attitude and submissive personality. What's a good approach to take with such girl? I mean, anything I say to her she's cool with. She doesn't have much of her personality developed at all. She's kind of easy to please so it's hard to tell whether she just being nice or she really likes me. She's also a bit on the shy side. When I know her a bit better I'll try to make my move. Any educated suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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not necessarily a bad thing

isn't is better to meet a woman who isn't high maintenance and will go along with things??

I'm a lot like that as well, easy going, it does not mean that she is submissive. It doesn't mean that she don't care, it just means that she's easy going. It does not mean that she doesn't have a personality.

if she's shy, she's probably doesn't feel she can speak up and/or be agressive. Be direct with her. "Would you like to go to blah blah or blah blah?" If she says she doesn't care than make her decide.

If you are interested in her, there's got to be something there that you like. You just might have to dig a little to get her real personality to come out. It's usually worth it.
 

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It's not a bad thing at all but it's not what i'm used to. When I talk to her i feel like there's no boundaries. I just don't want to confuse her being nice to me with her liking me so that it doesnt throw off my game. When I talk to her i feel like she a long time friend for better or worse.
 
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Touch her and see how she reacts to your touch - go for the kiss to let her hnow that you are interested in her romantically!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tie her up and spank her buns :)

That's what God designed submissive girls for.
 
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