"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls with submissive personalities

Life-Trainee

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I've met this girl through friends. She's got very "whatever" kind of attitude and submissive personality. What's a good approach to take with such girl? I mean, anything I say to her she's cool with. She doesn't have much of her personality developed at all. She's kind of easy to please so it's hard to tell whether she just being nice or she really likes me. She's also a bit on the shy side. When I know her a bit better I'll try to make my move. Any educated suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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32swf

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not necessarily a bad thing

isn't is better to meet a woman who isn't high maintenance and will go along with things??

I'm a lot like that as well, easy going, it does not mean that she is submissive. It doesn't mean that she don't care, it just means that she's easy going. It does not mean that she doesn't have a personality.

if she's shy, she's probably doesn't feel she can speak up and/or be agressive. Be direct with her. "Would you like to go to blah blah or blah blah?" If she says she doesn't care than make her decide.

If you are interested in her, there's got to be something there that you like. You just might have to dig a little to get her real personality to come out. It's usually worth it.
 

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It's not a bad thing at all but it's not what i'm used to. When I talk to her i feel like there's no boundaries. I just don't want to confuse her being nice to me with her liking me so that it doesnt throw off my game. When I talk to her i feel like she a long time friend for better or worse.
 
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Touch her and see how she reacts to your touch - go for the kiss to let her hnow that you are interested in her romantically!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ice Cold

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Tie her up and spank her buns :)

That's what God designed submissive girls for.
 
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