Girls with problems

[ocbeachbum]

I know it sounds crazy but im attracted to girls with problems. What I mean is like they have been abused by past boyfriends, family, etc or having a drug/alohol problem. I dont know why but they like me too. Its like im the comfort that they are looking for. Where can I even begin to look for girls like this?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Don't be stupid. Don't be a hero. Hooking up with girls like these is setting yourself up for disaster. Unless you want a dating life from hell, stay away from these girls.

 

[biker_gixxer]

to each his own bro. girls like this are a dime a dozen, you'll run into a girl with some sort of issue sooner or later.

 

[spidersense]

Originally posted by ocbeachbum
I know it sounds crazy but im attracted to girls with problems. What I mean is like they have been abused by past boyfriends, family, etc or having a drug/alohol problem. I dont know why but they like me too. Its like im the comfort that they are looking for. Where can I even begin to look for girls like this?

question to ask yourself: were you raised in an alcoholic or drug addicted home. Seriously. family members of alcoholics tend to play certain roles in the family, one of which is called the "hero" Watch the movie "Under The Influence" with Andy Griffith and Keanu Reeves, it's one of the best movies for demonstrating the different roles that family members play. Andy Griffith's daughter in that movie was what was called the "hero" she was the one that always tried to get him to stop drinking, she would put water in his alcohol and other things.

Seriously, you don't want an alcoholic or drug addict, not even a truely clean and sober one. The give bad genes.

One more thing, if you are from an alcoholic family(this may not be imediate family, it could be your gradfather or even great grand father, the behavior patterns are still passed on even if the family members don't drink), and you don't drink yourself, go to Al-Anon. There is a lot of crap that goes on in these peoples minds that they are not aware of that makes them this way. Fix that junk and I'm willing to bet that you will start attracting different types on women.

 

[spidersense]

oh, and if you study psychology you learn that people that play these roles in families will go out and meet people that play these roles in families. You tend to be attracted to your upbringing.