"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls with boyfriends.

Adrian

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Now before going any further I just want to let you guys know that I don't screw around with girls that already have boyfriends. They're always the ones coming to me but when it comes to asking them out most would just flake out on me. I'm confused. If they already have a boyfriend why show interest in someone else? I mean.... Whats the whole purpose of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship if the majority of ppl I know (male or female) cheat on one another?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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They're just trying to get free drinks out of you and boost their self esteem.

Don't try to meet up with them another time, take them out the back of the club and fvck them in the alley like they deserve!
 

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They flake out because they only want the thrill of the moment, the chase if you will. If they see that it will lead to more than that, they'll back off and 'flake' on ya. They love their man (or boy in most cases) but look for a thrill in other ways.
 

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When you have a girlfriend, if you could and if you knew no one would ever know, wouldnt you screw other women? They are just as sexual beings as us.

Beside, they desire what they dont have.

And also, they dont leave a boyfriend before securing a better catch. Even if its not that case, they like to have prospects around.
 

elvis aint dead yet

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Most people want what they can't have.
Most people would do something considered wrong if they figured they dont' get caught.

most people never believe they'll get caught, male or female.

Most peole do get caught, they just think they are too smart for it. More like their too stupid to realize not everybody is an idiot, male and female.

Most people, no matter how old, male or female, like to feel attractive and wanted.

Sometimes things go too far, sometimes they dont.

A 40 year old man who is wanted by a 25 year old girl gives the guy an ego boost.

A 40 year old women wanted by some 25 year old man gets her more excited then ever.

SOme relationships become stagnant and boring.

As they say, There is somebody bored with banging Pam Anderson and Carmen Electra.

There is somebody bored with dating Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp.

Thats how the world is, especially now adays. We are always looking for something else. The sad thing is, many times, that somethign else is worse then what we already had.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When you have a girlfriend, if you could and if you knew no one would ever know, wouldnt you screw other women? They are just as sexual beings as us.

.... If they were to cheat and screw some other guy(s) it would just make them a wh0re regardless of wether someone found out or not. If I was to find out a girl did that to me she would never hear from me ever again. I have a hard time having respect for wh0res. As far as me screwing other women... I wouldn't cheat. I'm just not the type of person.
 

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Originally posted by Trance

Beside, they desire what they dont have.
This makes sense. I once read somewhere....

'women want two things. Things they can't have, and things that don't belong to them'.
 

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Originally posted by Adrian
When you have a girlfriend, if you could and if you knew no one would ever know, wouldnt you screw other women? They are just as sexual beings as us.

.... If they were to cheat and screw some other guy(s) it would just make them a wh0re regardless of wether someone found out or not. If I was to find out a girl did that to me she would never hear from me ever again. I have a hard time having respect for wh0res. As far as me screwing other women... I wouldn't cheat. I'm just not the type of person.
Sorry but i dont believe any guy would resist a hot girl insinuating all over him, wanting to go to his place/bedroom and have a pleasure night.
You could resist once, twice, but i dont believe much longer.
 

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Originally posted by Adrian
[B... If they were to cheat and screw some other guy(s) it would just make them a wh0re regardless of wether someone found out or not. If I was to find out a girl did that to me she would never hear from me ever again. I have a hard time having respect for wh0res. As far as me screwing other women... I wouldn't cheat. I'm just not the type of person.
I'm glad you feel this way, Adrian. I think if a person cheats on a significant other, they are only revealing that they are not ready for a serious relationship. People who still want to go and "play the field" are apparently not mature enough or they are afraid of being tied down. And sadly, there are too many hedonistic people in today's world...they keep a boyfriend or girlfriend around as a source of money and/or sex while they go around screwing other people simply because they enjoy it. They think of no one but themselves and their own pleasure without worrying about breaking the heart of someone else, and that shows a serious lack maturity in that person.
 

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Originally posted by Elfynne
People who still want to go and "play the field" are apparently not mature enough or they are afraid of being tied down. And sadly, there are too many hedonistic people in today's world...
Or maybe it's the fact that a man who "plays the field" is busy building his career, chasing his passions, and living his life on his terms to want to settle down just yet. A "good" man usually goes through quite a bit of women throughout his lifetime before he finds one that meets all of the requirements he thinks his significant other should possess.

thecraftylefty
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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