"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dannyrt34

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Well, it's friday guys, we should all be getting ready to go and meet plenty of beautiful women this weekend. I have a date tomorrow night, so I'm going to the club tonight, but I got an interesting story of a girl I keep running into out at the club. And I'd like some advice of how to go about this.

She is one of the most gorgeous girls there, I consider her a HB10. It never fails that I always see her out there, the first week I went to the club, she grabbed my ass and kept striking up conversation and dancing with me, she even got jealous when I was dancing with other girls, and I don't even know her. She shows obvious interest, but one problem, whenever I make my move, she reminds me of the fact that she has a boyfriend, she keeps saying this "I have eyes watching me.". (Or that's just her excuse to tease me.) But I really don't think she's just being a tease, because usually those types of girls wouldn't be just teasing ONE guy in the club, and I never see her talking with other guys or even looking at other guys.

But anyway, the next time I go to the club, I see her again. She's with some friends, we catch each others eye. As soon as we make eye contact I see she gets really nervous, she goes to hide behind her group of friends, and as I move around, she moves to the other side. I decide to just start chatting with her friends then, and then she moves in to talk to me. I smile and say "Who you hiding from?". She just smiles and doesn't respond, then I say "So are you going to dance with me or what?" She says, "I can't, I feel sick." So I just started dancing with one of her friends instead. Then she wanders off to the sidelines and I see her just staring away at me while I dance with her friend. So I then decide to ask her friend "What's up with your girl, why is she sick." Her friend tells me what shes up to, she says "Oh, she's here with her boyfriend and I guess she doesn't want you to know that."

So after some small talk with the HB10s friends, I walk back over to my buddy and I tell him the situation. I point out to him the HB10 and as I point her out, I notice she still keeps looking my way, and smiling everytime our eyes meet. Me and my buddy were trying to discuss a way to get past the whole boyfriend gig. Now keep in mind, I'm not looking for advice from those of you that will say "Just go talk to the other ones without boyfriends." Because I ALREADY DO THIS! This isn't the only girl I approach at the club, I usually meet about 10 girls a night there.

The reason I want some REAL advice is because I feel like this is a CHALLENGE everytime I go. I feel like I'm understanding the normal pickups very well now, So I want to up the ante and try for a girl that's more of a challenge. Even if I can't get anywhere with this girl, I want to think of ways to get past this, because it boosts my male ego just to know that I CAN do it.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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flexion_

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This whole flirting thing is the female version of x-box/gamecube.

If her BF is with her you can't really do much then - wait for some other night when she is alone and make your move then. Of course remember that she is going to do the exact same thing to you if you ever start dating her.
 

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Speaking as someone far below your level... and to quote "Girl Next Door" (a generally lousy movie, natch)...

"fvck her for ME, man!"
 

Dannyrt34

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flexion_ said:
This whole flirting thing is the female version of x-box/gamecube.

If her BF is with her you can't really do much then - wait for some other night when she is alone and make your move then. Of course remember that she is going to do the exact same thing to you if you ever start dating her.
LOL Who said anything about dating her, she's a HB10! And apparently if she has a boyfriend I doubt she has interest in me romantically anyway, it's just lust. And one more thing, if she still shows interest in another guy while she has a boyfriend. It might not mean anything about what type of girl she is, I was thinking maybe the boyfriend is just a total wuss AFC, but then again how'd he get the HB10 in the first place if he is an AFC.

Basically, I want to see how far I can get with her, and then take it from there.
 

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realsmoothie said:
Speaking as someone far below your level... and to quote "Girl Next Door" (a generally lousy movie, natch)...

"fvck her for ME, man!"
Hahaha, never seen the movie, but I like the humor. Here's a tip, don't ever say you're far below my level, we're all here because we're aspiring DJ's. We all have the ability to have almost any woman we want, the only problem is our thoughts and emotions get in the way.

I read on here that even the best pickup artists are out of their game somedays.

So the first step into becoming that great alpha male that you want to be is this, 'Think that YOU aleady are an alpha male'.:rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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