I mean honestly, has ANYONE here read ANY of the DJ bible?
Have ANY of you have ANY real life Experience?
The answers to your questions have been posted time and time again. I hate to get aggitated, but it's getting old and getting old quick.
Look, it's a BOYFRIEND.
BOYFRIEND.
Not Husband.
Not Fiancee'
BOY-FRIEND
If you can pull her from her BOYFRIEND, more power to you..
lol, advoding a girl that has a BOYFRIEND, no matter how serious in my opinion at least, is down right Dumb, that's crap I would expect to find on Laguna Beach, not here
Now, if she choose not to date me or to hook up with me because of him, more power to her AND him.. he has done a good job of keeping his girl interested in their relationship..
But it's not YOUR job to give a damn about their relationship. That's what FRIENDS do
Two very quick stories... both last year. I met this girl, actually went to school with her in high school and was cute then, was a 9 now. Got her number from her, and seemed interested, even wanted to come and "catch up" with me after work at my house, but couldn't close the deal. She told me she didn't think her BF would think it's a good idea.
I wished her the best and told Her I would catch up with her at our class reunion
Another story, same place actually, I met a girl, who was also a bartender, a couple of years older than me, that flirted with me like crazy. Turns out she was married... had been married for 5 years. But she was flirting with me so bad that all of the other waitiresses called me her secret BF.
So I invited her back to my apartment one night, and she came, and i closed the deal.
did i feel bad? Not at all. Why? If he was doing his job right, his WIFE wouldn't be throwing the pvssy at me, literarly begging me to take it.
I mean, you have the moral issue of banging a married woman, but that's up to every man. I for one dont' think of it as in issue, espically these days.
I mean, what is a BF/GF anyway but a title in reality? There are some girls who are with a guy, just to be with him. A girl will tell you she has a BF, and very well may have one, but she may be telling you that just to tell you that she is wanted by other men and concered attratcive enough to date, the same way we flaunt around social proof at clubs, to let other girls know we are desired by women.
By automatically putting the girl in the no touch zone because she has a BF, of any kind, you loose