"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dimebag_Darrell

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GAWDDAMNIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It seems like all the chicks I meet or met have f*cking boyfriends, and a lot of those dudes are my friends and like I wanna f*ck those girls and try them DJin on em and sh*t, but I don't wanna f*ck my friends over. Ya know "broes before hoes"

I'm gonna keep searching for the single girls, but what should I do with the girls that aren't? Keep their IL up, or forget em?

There's been some debate on this issue on the site and I'm unclear on whether to f*ck em or respect the relationship...some say go for it, some say keep your distance..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Supero Masculus

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I say keep the IL up and keep searching for those single chicks. I have to believe in "bro's before hoe's" cuase girls come and go, but your dudes are always there for you. Or at least they should be. But just keep a minor personal interest in these girls. Besides, most relationships don't really last that long at this level of the game anyway! Hang in there.
 
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I know EXACTLY what you're saying, man. It's frustrating, isn't it? I mean, there are a few single girls I meet that are mildly attractive or even smoking hot, but the only ones I actually want (smart, fun, able to have a conversation about something other than school gossip) have boyfriends.

I suppose it might just be the "you only want what you can't have" thing working. But I'm about ready to just give up and start over in college. The only thing I, personally, feel I can do at this point is keep improving myself physically and mentally and once school's out, go on a cruise or something and **** around. LoL
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's even worse in college. Every tenth girl is maybe single?
 
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