"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GAWDDAMNIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It seems like all the chicks I meet or met have f*cking boyfriends, and a lot of those dudes are my friends and like I wanna f*ck those girls and try them DJin on em and sh*t, but I don't wanna f*ck my friends over. Ya know "broes before hoes"

I'm gonna keep searching for the single girls, but what should I do with the girls that aren't? Keep their IL up, or forget em?

There's been some debate on this issue on the site and I'm unclear on whether to f*ck em or respect the relationship...some say go for it, some say keep your distance..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Supero Masculus

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I say keep the IL up and keep searching for those single chicks. I have to believe in "bro's before hoe's" cuase girls come and go, but your dudes are always there for you. Or at least they should be. But just keep a minor personal interest in these girls. Besides, most relationships don't really last that long at this level of the game anyway! Hang in there.
 

Drowning

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I know EXACTLY what you're saying, man. It's frustrating, isn't it? I mean, there are a few single girls I meet that are mildly attractive or even smoking hot, but the only ones I actually want (smart, fun, able to have a conversation about something other than school gossip) have boyfriends.

I suppose it might just be the "you only want what you can't have" thing working. But I'm about ready to just give up and start over in college. The only thing I, personally, feel I can do at this point is keep improving myself physically and mentally and once school's out, go on a cruise or something and **** around. LoL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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napoleon

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It's even worse in college. Every tenth girl is maybe single?
 
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