"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls with bfs

Newton

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First of all, I'm against gaming girls with bfs. I somewhat believe in karma and would never want some **** happening to me. I was curious how do you "game" a girl with a bf, but at the same time you're not really gaming her. If that makes any sense haha. I want to at least hang out with her, but then it'll obviously seem like I'm gaming her. I'm talking about a random girl you just met, no mutual friends. I just realized that I've never made friends with a girl unless we had mutual friends.

Basically, I want to maintain a friendship with a random girl that has a bf. I know this sounds basic, but like I said, I have never just been friends with a random girl I just met. I guess this falls under "expanding your social circle".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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st_99

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if she's not married she's single. game stays the same.
 

oneboy21

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Newton said:
First of all, I'm against gaming girls with bfs. I somewhat believe in karma and would never want some **** happening to me. I was curious how do you "game" a girl with a bf, but at the same time you're not really gaming her. If that makes any sense haha. I want to at least hang out with her, but then it'll obviously seem like I'm gaming her. I'm talking about a random girl you just met, no mutual friends. I just realized that I've never made friends with a girl unless we had mutual friends.

Basically, I want to maintain a friendship with a random girl that has a bf. I know this sounds basic, but like I said, I have never just been friends with a random girl I just met. I guess this falls under "expanding your social circle".
A chick is not going to hang out with you if she has a bf.
You can get a chick with a bf if you have a gf.
 

zekko

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oneboy21 said:
A chick is not going to hang out with you if she has a bf.
You've never heard of girls who have "male friends"? She'd probably love to go out with the OP as long as she can label it under the excuse of "we're just friends". Women today are all told it's perfectly all right to have "male friends", even if they're married. I don't put up with this myself, but that's what the feminist world is telling them.

OP, if what this forum says is true, the way to become a girl's friend is to be her "emotional tampon".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nismo-4

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All girls have boyfriends. The more attractive you are physically and financially, the less women you talk to will have boyfriends.

Simple sh*t.
 
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