"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First of all, I'm against gaming girls with bfs. I somewhat believe in karma and would never want some **** happening to me. I was curious how do you "game" a girl with a bf, but at the same time you're not really gaming her. If that makes any sense haha. I want to at least hang out with her, but then it'll obviously seem like I'm gaming her. I'm talking about a random girl you just met, no mutual friends. I just realized that I've never made friends with a girl unless we had mutual friends.

Basically, I want to maintain a friendship with a random girl that has a bf. I know this sounds basic, but like I said, I have never just been friends with a random girl I just met. I guess this falls under "expanding your social circle".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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if she's not married she's single. game stays the same.
 
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Newton said:
First of all, I'm against gaming girls with bfs. I somewhat believe in karma and would never want some **** happening to me. I was curious how do you "game" a girl with a bf, but at the same time you're not really gaming her. If that makes any sense haha. I want to at least hang out with her, but then it'll obviously seem like I'm gaming her. I'm talking about a random girl you just met, no mutual friends. I just realized that I've never made friends with a girl unless we had mutual friends.

Basically, I want to maintain a friendship with a random girl that has a bf. I know this sounds basic, but like I said, I have never just been friends with a random girl I just met. I guess this falls under "expanding your social circle".
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A chick is not going to hang out with you if she has a bf.
You can get a chick with a bf if you have a gf.
 
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oneboy21 said:
A chick is not going to hang out with you if she has a bf.
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You've never heard of girls who have "male friends"? She'd probably love to go out with the OP as long as she can label it under the excuse of "we're just friends". Women today are all told it's perfectly all right to have "male friends", even if they're married. I don't put up with this myself, but that's what the feminist world is telling them.

OP, if what this forum says is true, the way to become a girl's friend is to be her "emotional tampon".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All girls have boyfriends. The more attractive you are physically and financially, the less women you talk to will have boyfriends.

Simple sh*t.
 
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