"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls who talk a lot... a good thing?

Livinlifehard

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Well i have been talking to this girl. And all she does is talk and talk.... but actually i kind of like it, because i dont have do anything but sit back; or on phone type on computer and grumble sometimes. I am going after most chicks now (even the ones i wouldnt normaly go after) because i have been out of the game for a long time with my last relationship, i am doing it as practice.

What do you guys think about girls who keep themselves intertained by talking all the time?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kryminal

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Makes my life a hell of a lot easier, allows me to focus on signals and other things that help with kino.
 

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Livinlifehard said:
Well i have been talking to this girl. And all she does is talk and talk.... but actually i kind of like it, because i dont have do anything but sit back; or on phone type on computer and grumble sometimes. I am going after most chicks now (even the ones i wouldnt normaly go after) because i have been out of the game for a long time with my last relationship, i am doing it as practice.

What do you guys think about girls who keep themselves intertained by talking all the time?
Im always more into the quiet ones. Less talking...more doing stuff together.
 

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I dont mind when girls do most of talking, it makes it easier.. usually my phone conversation goes something like this...

HB: blah blah blah blah blah blah.......

Me: um hmm

HB: blah blah blah blah...

Me: um hmm...so when are you coming over...

easy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Man Of Adventure

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my older brother though...man, hes got a talker of a wife. But shes cool
 

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I believe it's a sign of femininity..

Girls who talk a lot make me laugh just because they talk and laugh so much and get excited at what they're saying (women who /feel/ what they're saying as if they're experiencing it) - a very endearing quality in my opinion.

Example: I remember 2 jobs ago I was sat stuffing envelopes opposite two 18 year olds.. one was talking loads and talking about how she loves cheese on baked potatoes and was getting all excited while she was telling her friend.... "Oh I loooove cheese on everything! Especially melted! I put it on everything!!" I couldn't stop laughing at her - which brought me in to the conversation nicely when they noticed me cracking up. ;)

It takes all the pressure off you too!

The Muscly Jerk
 
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