"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls who talk a lot... a good thing?

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Well i have been talking to this girl. And all she does is talk and talk.... but actually i kind of like it, because i dont have do anything but sit back; or on phone type on computer and grumble sometimes. I am going after most chicks now (even the ones i wouldnt normaly go after) because i have been out of the game for a long time with my last relationship, i am doing it as practice.

What do you guys think about girls who keep themselves intertained by talking all the time?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Makes my life a hell of a lot easier, allows me to focus on signals and other things that help with kino.
 
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Livinlifehard said:
Well i have been talking to this girl. And all she does is talk and talk.... but actually i kind of like it, because i dont have do anything but sit back; or on phone type on computer and grumble sometimes. I am going after most chicks now (even the ones i wouldnt normaly go after) because i have been out of the game for a long time with my last relationship, i am doing it as practice.

What do you guys think about girls who keep themselves intertained by talking all the time?
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Im always more into the quiet ones. Less talking...more doing stuff together.
 
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I dont mind when girls do most of talking, it makes it easier.. usually my phone conversation goes something like this...

HB: blah blah blah blah blah blah.......

Me: um hmm

HB: blah blah blah blah...

Me: um hmm...so when are you coming over...

easy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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my older brother though...man, hes got a talker of a wife. But shes cool
 
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I believe it's a sign of femininity..

Girls who talk a lot make me laugh just because they talk and laugh so much and get excited at what they're saying (women who /feel/ what they're saying as if they're experiencing it) - a very endearing quality in my opinion.

Example: I remember 2 jobs ago I was sat stuffing envelopes opposite two 18 year olds.. one was talking loads and talking about how she loves cheese on baked potatoes and was getting all excited while she was telling her friend.... "Oh I loooove cheese on everything! Especially melted! I put it on everything!!" I couldn't stop laughing at her - which brought me in to the conversation nicely when they noticed me cracking up. ;)

It takes all the pressure off you too!

The Muscly Jerk
 
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