"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Girls who smoke

LouieVaton Don

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I know this may sound like a fairly obvious observation, but I feel like its been overlooked. Girls who smoke..............wouldn't they be uneligible for LTR's given the clear lack of self-esteem. IMO smoking ciggarettes is the ultimate #1 red flag nowadaze. It's like your slowly committing suicide and for what? It's because you hate yourself maybe and your existence. These are the types of things a DJ doesnt need in his world, all that negativity. Therefore if the chick indulges in bad habits such as ciggarettes she shouldnt exceed Fvck buddy status.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Come on bro, dont u think ur bein a bit dramatic? I mean sure, smoking is disgusting.. but i hardly think every smoker out there has low self esteem, or in your words..
It's because you hate yourself maybe and your existence
I personally hate smokers and i wont kiss a smoker. Ill fucc one but i wont put my mouth near hers.
 

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Why?

Can anybody tell me why women, the most beautiful beings on earth, insist on making themselves look ugly? I mean, there is nothing as unattractive as smoke coming out from a woman's mouth (well... actually there is. Smoke coming from a guy's mouth:D ).
Unfortunately, where I live, most women my age smoke. It's a shame: so many beautiful women that won't have the privilege of my company:cool:
Well I just needed to rant for a while because I hate it when a beautiful girl fails to pass my requirement just because she smokes.

Alexis Zorba
 

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i hear ya man....smoking is nasty...my ex used to smoke then she stopped then towards the end of our relationship started smoking again...said it relaxes her...i think thats bs...makes ya look dumb and smell nasty...but oh well
 

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Smoking ages one quick

Women who smoke in their 20's are going to look like 70 in their 40's. Once again, a complete inability to see down the road as most people in their 20's (me included at that time).

Smoking is a disgusting habit. I foolishly dated a smoker once. Her whole f'n house and car stunk like sh-t and it didn't fit me since I like to run and play tennis. And I don't care if women just smoke in clubs, that means they smoke at home. It's a loser habit.

Here's a good comparison: Go to a road run or the gym sometime and notice the women in there. Notice ALL the women in there, 20's, 30's, and 40's, and see how healthy and YOUNG they look.

Go to a few bars, notice women in their 20's, 30's, and 40's and notice how OLD they look.

Find a bar where older women hang out and take a look at what your smoker girlfriend will look like as an older smoker wife.

It ain't pretty.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it's because you hate yourself maybe and your existence.
Thats one of the most stupid things ive ever heard.

I smoke when Im bored, or if im stressed or just have one when my mates are to be social.

I dont mind smokers at all and I think people who do are just prudes.
 

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I like to smoke, its one of the plearures of life. I dont care if a girl smokes or not, i actually enjoy smoking a cigar in bed with a girl after ****ing, or while drinking a beer in a bar.

Other thing, girls go together to the bathroom as a sign of friendship. Guys smoke a joint together as a sign of friendship.

I smoke for the pleasure, not actually by the social act like some ppl who only smoke when they go out.
 

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Re: Why?

Originally posted by Alexis Zorba
Can anybody tell me why women, the most beautiful beings on earth, insist on making themselves look ugly? I mean, there is nothing as unattractive as smoke coming out from a woman's mouth (well... actually there is. Smoke coming from a guy's mouth:D ).
Unfortunately, where I live, most women my age smoke. It's a shame: so many beautiful women that won't have the privilege of my company:cool:
Well I just needed to rant for a while because I hate it when a beautiful girl fails to pass my requirement just because she smokes.

Alexis Zorba
I agree with U dude! I hate girls, who smoke!
 

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Originally posted by LouieVaton Don
I know this may sound like a fairly obvious observation, but I feel like its been overlooked. Girls who smoke..............wouldn't they be uneligible for LTR's given the clear lack of self-esteem. IMO smoking ciggarettes is the ultimate #1 red flag nowadaze. It's like your slowly committing suicide and for what? It's because you hate yourself maybe and your existence. These are the types of things a DJ doesnt need in his world, all that negativity. Therefore if the chick indulges in bad habits such as ciggarettes she shouldnt exceed Fvck buddy status.
This has got to be one of the stupidest posts I've ever read on this site. The #1 red flag is smoking??

Keep that in mind when you fall for some self-centred, selfish, two timing attention HO who takes you to the cleaners financially and emotionally. You'll have the satisfaction of knowing she had good lungs.
 

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Its like slow and gradual suicide. Dont tell me that being addicted to ciggarettes doesnt correlate to low self esteem. I call it the #1 red flag(I did overdo it, didn't I) because your can catch something like that earlier, maybe within the first date. Funny Zoss, real funny. I wasn't trying to imply that only females who smoke can ruin you but rather the chances are, if she doesnt care or have the presence enough to not put that type of crap in her body. What ggod is she to herself or you in anything meaningful?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Man give that b*** a mint and don't let her smoke in yo ride. I aint the m*********** Surgeon General I juz wanna hitit.:D
 

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smokin is sexy u fags
u guys should all eat a ****
 
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I'm not biased about whether a girl smokes or not as long as she can keep her mouth smelling somewhat ok, and if she shares an occasional smoke.

other than that, I'd force her to quit smoking tobacco and start smoking weed because its healthier and doesn't kill you
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
other than that, I'd force her to quit smoking tobacco and start smoking weed because its healthier and doesn't kill you
Hahahaha, so true. :D

It seems like a lot of chicks smoke these days, at least casually. I know more chicks that smoke than guys that do.
 

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so true

Man, it seems EVERY girl who's >HB7 smokes around here. Some of it may be because it's a pretty depressed area (though with cigs about $5 a pack, it's a huge waste of money).

My cousin has a running joke; he'll start a diet program called Smoke Yourself Thin and get loads of hotties.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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