"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls who smoke - turn on or turn off??

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Hey guys. Was just wondering what your view on girls who smoke is? Do any of you find it a turn on, or does it put you off. Personally I can find it quite repulsive, but I recently found a forum of pictures of girls smoking, and it's obvious that some guys have a 'smoking fetish'. Just wondered what you guys thought of these babes! The forum is at http://hostedboard.com/phpbb/?mforum=candice
(if you want a username and password try cig_luver with password strats)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Major turn off. If I'm just using the b!tch for sex, - not a deal breaker.

However, if LTR, I would not consider one.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Everyone has fetishes.I have a fetish for thug girls. I love bandanas and tatoos on fine women.
 
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all chicks i been dating with are smoking. up here its like, dope chicks smoke. its very common. its no turning me on, but mainly i dont care.i just got used to. i think its not an advantege or disadvantage. its all about you.
 
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Turn off, not only because of the smell but also because I think it's a sign of weakness. People only smoke cigarettes to fit in, and if you need to put cancer into your body just to be cool, you're aren't cool enough to hang with me.
 
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