"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls who smoke - turn on or turn off??

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Guitar_Whizz

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Hey guys. Was just wondering what your view on girls who smoke is? Do any of you find it a turn on, or does it put you off. Personally I can find it quite repulsive, but I recently found a forum of pictures of girls smoking, and it's obvious that some guys have a 'smoking fetish'. Just wondered what you guys thought of these babes! The forum is at http://hostedboard.com/phpbb/?mforum=candice
(if you want a username and password try cig_luver with password strats)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wowiehowie

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Major turn off. If I'm just using the b!tch for sex, - not a deal breaker.

However, if LTR, I would not consider one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skel

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Everyone has fetishes.I have a fetish for thug girls. I love bandanas and tatoos on fine women.
 

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all chicks i been dating with are smoking. up here its like, dope chicks smoke. its very common. its no turning me on, but mainly i dont care.i just got used to. i think its not an advantege or disadvantage. its all about you.
 

il_duce

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Turn off, not only because of the smell but also because I think it's a sign of weakness. People only smoke cigarettes to fit in, and if you need to put cancer into your body just to be cool, you're aren't cool enough to hang with me.
 
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