"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls Who no longer want to date guys !

ashman1

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Yo dudes, havent posed here in a while so , here goes . . .

i know this girl , we have this great chemistry , she kinda goofy and hot
you know ? and so i asked her out , she explained to me how she has been hurt so much by the dudes in her life that she's through with guys , she not a lesbian or bi , just not dating guys anymore .

how do i break her , or should i move on ? - go ! .:cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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horaholic

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Full of shyt. Dont listen to it. NEVER listen to that.

She's just not dating guys anymore... until she meets one who makes her panties wet.

It may, however mean she doesnt date guys named 'ashman1' anymore.
 

scribblec

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thats just her nice way of saying no to you

you really think if brad pitt came to her and asked her out shes gonna be like SORRY DUDE I DONT DATE DUDESSS
 

Furyguy

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Ooh, sounds tough man. All I can honestly offer is,

Sounds like a phase to me. She'll probably get over it.

Any chance she's just making excuses cause she's not that into you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheAnswer_

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Bro, I'm going to give you some advice as I was in this same situation. She isn't attracted to you PERIOD.. All this bull about she doesn't date guys is a cover. She was trying to be nice by saying she doesnt date guys instead of flat out saying I don't like you like that to your face. It sucks but it is the truth.
 

Ollie

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I honestly don't understand the question. And I'm not picking on you cause I see it on here all the time. What do you mean by should you move on? Were you planning on making her an exclusive girlfriend the first time you asked her out and she said yes? Having her turn you down or accepting your offer shouldn't change anything in the short run. You should be meeting new people no matter what at this point. Maybe she is the perfect girl for you, but you'll never know if you latch onto her right away.

As far as what you can do to "break her?" Well it's obvious. Whatever you were doing before wasn't working. So change the frame. Instead of laughing and goofing around with her (if that's what you usually do) laugh at her and make fun of her. If she gets mad, laugh at her more. Hit on other girls in front of her. Act like you barely even notice she's there. Be aloof and mysterious. Forget that you said you'd call her. If you meet for lunch every Wednesday (or something like that) be too busy the next few weeks and be vague as to why. The biggest problem I find with guys on this forum is that they're too hung up on one rejection. I'm going out tonight, and if I get shot down every time I talk to someone, I can call Lisa, Kathy, Alicia, Michelle, or Allie for a date this weekend (not bootie calls or whatever. Girls I like and am currently dating. Maybe someday I'll figure out which one I like the most). Or one of the girls whose number I got last weekend. So the outcome of my interactions really doesn't mean much to me, and they can feel that.

No you may not be in that position (having a few girls to call), but act like you are. When you're talking to a girl and you like her, make sure you show her that you honestly don't give a damn whether she says yes or not. That'll leave her wondering why you're so confident. And when I say show her I mean act almost completely apathetic. Totally cool. Yes? No? Who the hell cares. And the best part is, this behavior attracts girls on a subconscious level. I have a lot of girls who are friends, and they're always saying stuff like "I don't know what it is about this guy. There's something I can't figure out." Your goal is to be that guy.
 

fertileTurtle

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It's a shyt test. You should have chopped through that like a knife through butter. It's not over yet, keep trying, she's bound to break.
 

daygameguy

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You are LJBFd.


Show her some abundance of women in your life, if you can. That is your best bet.
 
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