"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls Who no longer want to date guys !

ashman1

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Yo dudes, havent posed here in a while so , here goes . . .

i know this girl , we have this great chemistry , she kinda goofy and hot
you know ? and so i asked her out , she explained to me how she has been hurt so much by the dudes in her life that she's through with guys , she not a lesbian or bi , just not dating guys anymore .

how do i break her , or should i move on ? - go ! .:cool:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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horaholic

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Full of shyt. Dont listen to it. NEVER listen to that.

She's just not dating guys anymore... until she meets one who makes her panties wet.

It may, however mean she doesnt date guys named 'ashman1' anymore.
 

scribblec

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thats just her nice way of saying no to you

you really think if brad pitt came to her and asked her out shes gonna be like SORRY DUDE I DONT DATE DUDESSS
 

Furyguy

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Ooh, sounds tough man. All I can honestly offer is,

Sounds like a phase to me. She'll probably get over it.

Any chance she's just making excuses cause she's not that into you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheAnswer_

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Bro, I'm going to give you some advice as I was in this same situation. She isn't attracted to you PERIOD.. All this bull about she doesn't date guys is a cover. She was trying to be nice by saying she doesnt date guys instead of flat out saying I don't like you like that to your face. It sucks but it is the truth.
 

Ollie

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I honestly don't understand the question. And I'm not picking on you cause I see it on here all the time. What do you mean by should you move on? Were you planning on making her an exclusive girlfriend the first time you asked her out and she said yes? Having her turn you down or accepting your offer shouldn't change anything in the short run. You should be meeting new people no matter what at this point. Maybe she is the perfect girl for you, but you'll never know if you latch onto her right away.

As far as what you can do to "break her?" Well it's obvious. Whatever you were doing before wasn't working. So change the frame. Instead of laughing and goofing around with her (if that's what you usually do) laugh at her and make fun of her. If she gets mad, laugh at her more. Hit on other girls in front of her. Act like you barely even notice she's there. Be aloof and mysterious. Forget that you said you'd call her. If you meet for lunch every Wednesday (or something like that) be too busy the next few weeks and be vague as to why. The biggest problem I find with guys on this forum is that they're too hung up on one rejection. I'm going out tonight, and if I get shot down every time I talk to someone, I can call Lisa, Kathy, Alicia, Michelle, or Allie for a date this weekend (not bootie calls or whatever. Girls I like and am currently dating. Maybe someday I'll figure out which one I like the most). Or one of the girls whose number I got last weekend. So the outcome of my interactions really doesn't mean much to me, and they can feel that.

No you may not be in that position (having a few girls to call), but act like you are. When you're talking to a girl and you like her, make sure you show her that you honestly don't give a damn whether she says yes or not. That'll leave her wondering why you're so confident. And when I say show her I mean act almost completely apathetic. Totally cool. Yes? No? Who the hell cares. And the best part is, this behavior attracts girls on a subconscious level. I have a lot of girls who are friends, and they're always saying stuff like "I don't know what it is about this guy. There's something I can't figure out." Your goal is to be that guy.
 

fertileTurtle

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It's a shyt test. You should have chopped through that like a knife through butter. It's not over yet, keep trying, she's bound to break.
 

daygameguy

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You are LJBFd.


Show her some abundance of women in your life, if you can. That is your best bet.
 
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