Girls who neg

[The Sperminator]

Is it just me or do you hate them. Personally I neg but very lightly and not all the time just every now and then. I know a couple of girls who neg all the time. Everything that comes out of there mouth is an insult. They try to hard to be funny. I hate these girls. They always are negging me and it annoys the **** out of me. For example one girl at my work she does this all the time. At first I was attracted a little bit to her but she won't stop with the negs. I like a little teasing back and forth with each other but she goes too far. Like everything that comes out of her mouth is a neg I can't have a real conversation with her. I mean I always have come backs but it just gets to the point where I just want to tell her to shut the **** up. I'm not sensitive or anything I just can't take it when she does it like every time she talks to me. I'm tired of just insulting her back. I usually always have witting/funny comebacks but I'm getting tired of keeping it up. Anyone else experience this?

 

[ketostix]

Yes when you start and maintain negs and C+F and keep coming back with replies, you create that type of "relationship". You should've changed gears quickly and went into comfort a long time ago.

 

[The Sperminator]

Yeah I know what you mean. I did stop doing it a while ago but she still does it. Now instead of replying back with another smart ass comment I just ignore her. Because if I do a comeback she will just keep at it. I think she thinks I like that but I don't. What pisses me off even more is everytime I'm trying to game another girl she always butts in and negs me. She does this everytime. Now I can't stand this girl. Not only does she annoy me but now shes butting into my conversations all the time. I noticed too it's only when girls are flirting with me. I think she likes me but I hate her now.

 

[ketostix]

Well I guess you've created a Frankenstein monster . She probably is interested in you.You might actually have to tell her to stop or get her into a deep "AFC" conversation to change her frame.

 

[MooseGod]

I feel your pain buddy, sarcasm is like a second language to me. The chicks seem to eat it up though, almost to the point where I have to literally beat them off with a stick.

 

[ElStud]

Sounds like she's overnegging. Girls get tired of constant negging too. You can start off negging her when you guys have just met, but if you don't start vibing with her, she'll get disinterested and she'll just get tired of the negs.

 

[smooth guy]

If she doesn't neg everyone and it's your special treatment it can be a good sign.
But if you're in the friend zone or if she's interest I can't tell. But I've had a couple girls do this, and it either meant they saw me as a ****y guy but as a friend, or they were interested and it was their way of "flirting."