"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls who like beta/pushover guys

usernamedox11

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Anyone notice an abundance of girls that only date men they can control?

Sometimes this makes me question that all girls like an assertive, alpha type male.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DiegoSantori

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Women may sometimes want beta males, but they never want them for very long. To a woman, betas are transitory. Alphas are forever.
 

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applegoo said:
Anyone notice an abundance of girls that only date men they can control?

Sometimes this makes me question that all girls like an assertive, alpha type male.
It really depends on the person.

Personally, I want a partner...and not someone to control. Other men and women may be different in that regard. Some want control...some want to be controlled.
 

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Jaylan said:
It really depends on the person.

Personally, I want a partner...and not someone to control. Other men and women may be different in that regard. Some want control...some want to be controlled.
Spot on.

Most dudes are looking for someone to control and or have some paranoia of women all wanting to control them as if they simply are unable to just walk away from chicks like that but need to "prove" themselves to "win" some ridiculous war.

Myself I'd walk away from that nonsense. Especially if it kept up. True there are little tests in all people to see how who they choose reacts and is "real" in their eyes but if the nonsense keeps up it's best never to waste your time and move on meeting someone who compliments you as a partner.

Those who need to control and need someone who's willing to be controlled are insecure and lacking themselves and will end up not respecting a person who never stands up for themselves and just listens to them like an obedient pet.

Some people just never get it.
 
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