"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls who like beta/pushover guys

usernamedox11

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Anyone notice an abundance of girls that only date men they can control?

Sometimes this makes me question that all girls like an assertive, alpha type male.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women may sometimes want beta males, but they never want them for very long. To a woman, betas are transitory. Alphas are forever.
 

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applegoo said:
Anyone notice an abundance of girls that only date men they can control?

Sometimes this makes me question that all girls like an assertive, alpha type male.
It really depends on the person.

Personally, I want a partner...and not someone to control. Other men and women may be different in that regard. Some want control...some want to be controlled.
 

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Jaylan said:
It really depends on the person.

Personally, I want a partner...and not someone to control. Other men and women may be different in that regard. Some want control...some want to be controlled.
Spot on.

Most dudes are looking for someone to control and or have some paranoia of women all wanting to control them as if they simply are unable to just walk away from chicks like that but need to "prove" themselves to "win" some ridiculous war.

Myself I'd walk away from that nonsense. Especially if it kept up. True there are little tests in all people to see how who they choose reacts and is "real" in their eyes but if the nonsense keeps up it's best never to waste your time and move on meeting someone who compliments you as a partner.

Those who need to control and need someone who's willing to be controlled are insecure and lacking themselves and will end up not respecting a person who never stands up for themselves and just listens to them like an obedient pet.

Some people just never get it.
 
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