"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls who like beta/pushover guys

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Anyone notice an abundance of girls that only date men they can control?

Sometimes this makes me question that all girls like an assertive, alpha type male.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women may sometimes want beta males, but they never want them for very long. To a woman, betas are transitory. Alphas are forever.
 
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applegoo said:
Anyone notice an abundance of girls that only date men they can control?

Sometimes this makes me question that all girls like an assertive, alpha type male.
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It really depends on the person.

Personally, I want a partner...and not someone to control. Other men and women may be different in that regard. Some want control...some want to be controlled.
 
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Jaylan said:
It really depends on the person.

Personally, I want a partner...and not someone to control. Other men and women may be different in that regard. Some want control...some want to be controlled.
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Spot on.

Most dudes are looking for someone to control and or have some paranoia of women all wanting to control them as if they simply are unable to just walk away from chicks like that but need to "prove" themselves to "win" some ridiculous war.

Myself I'd walk away from that nonsense. Especially if it kept up. True there are little tests in all people to see how who they choose reacts and is "real" in their eyes but if the nonsense keeps up it's best never to waste your time and move on meeting someone who compliments you as a partner.

Those who need to control and need someone who's willing to be controlled are insecure and lacking themselves and will end up not respecting a person who never stands up for themselves and just listens to them like an obedient pet.

Some people just never get it.
 
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