Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls who hit...HARD!

Jariel

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I'm not sure if any of you have experienced this, but say you neghit/tease a girl you know and she hits you playfully. That's cool, right? However, how would you take it if a girl takes it too far, hits you with all her might or keeps pounding you? I'm a big guy, so they probably don't expect to hurt me and they do it playfully, yet they really put force into their punches to the point where they echo or the girls even hurt their hands (what can I say, I'm like a rock :))!

They're attractive girls, I like them as friends, but I'm with someone and not interested in pursuing them. I continue teasing them, hitting them (lightly) back and playfighting, but I do wonder if their aggression is a sign of attraction or sexual play. My ex girlfriend used to do the same thing and I don't want to lead them on by playing along with it if it's more than just messing around. I've already lead one of these girls on and hurt her, so I'm not sure this is appropriate.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ethnomethodologist

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Well if its playful...

Why not play the grappler? Excellent kino, and you can do some freaky wrestling moves...

If it really bothers them, do it until they get angry and want to be put down:)

If you want her still though, stop her physically from hitting you. grab her hands, or give her a bear hug. Lift her off the ground, and tease her some more.
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I've had girls do that, and than as the ultimate closer, I told em I was going to give em the ultimate purple nurple!!! I did the whole hand grab on her tit and twist, and held on!! told her to stop hitting me, and gave it a little twist.

She was interrupting sets I opened with how "CRAZY" I was:crackup: Girls would get annoyed of her and walk away. I told her to back off, I'll come talk to her later, than went back to the other girls.
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golfguy

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Generally they're only playing back.

Except when they hit you real hard. My last concussion was given by a girl (who's much bigger than me too I may add).

I turned around to get a beer and I got hammered right behind the ear.
 
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