"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls who dont call back

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bman

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this mutual friend of mine has been flirting with me for a while. we went out in a big group one night and she kept getting me to go sit down with her so we could talk. towards the end of the night i was drunk and ended up making out with her. i told her we were going to go out one day during the week and she said she wanted to.

so i call her and left her a voicemail and didnt get a call back. i dont think i should call again but im bound to see her sooner or later since we have mutual friends.

do you think i should just kind of ignore her when we hang out or should i give her some cf lines about how i need to watch her so she doesnt get me drunk and take advantage of me again?

any other ideas?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You may consider waiting a week and then calling again. If you're sure you're going to see her again, then just watch how she acts around you. If she tries to talk, kiss, whatever then I'd suggest a little freezeout for punishment . . . A good freezeout can go a LONG way sometimes.
 
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Unlikely a chick will call back this early in the game. Don't expect it. For one, if they return the call it makes them feel THEY are the one's initiating - and a chick always wants to reserve the right to change her mind!

You can call her again if you want to try it but don't keep calling, it will seem clingy.

If she was drunk it could be something she regrets! (No offence, but it's true) :eek:

When you see her just act normal, like you usually would. Don't expect like she's gonna jump on you or let you jump on her just because you made out once.

If you want to go out sometime, just ask her straight. Let her say yes or no. Simple as that.
 
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You call women? That's an extreme measure, dude. What ever made you do THAT?
 
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If you hang out with her in a group again, play it cool and make plans with her at the end. If you don't see her for another week or so, call her. She's expecting you to keep trying. It's a man's job to do all that (ain't that a ***** sometimes)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When you see her just act normal, like you usually would. Don't expect like she's gonna jump on you or let you jump on her just because you made out once.

Personally, I would use this approach, act like nothing happened, or like it was no big deal. JJ makes an excellent point here...

do you think i should just kind of ignore her when we hang out or should i give her some cf lines about how i need to watch her so she doesnt get me drunk and take advantage of me again?

Don't ignore her, act normal as stated above. If she tries to flirt with you or kiss you (as fender85 stated), THEN throw some C&F at her.

Don't do any of the following...
Act like you are upset that she never called.
Make it a point to ask her why she didn't call.
Shower her with attention beause you got a chance to 'tongue wrestle' with her.
 
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in the beginning of a dating courtship ritual - most women want the man to chase.
 
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It's because of situations like these that I hate to leave a message the first time I call. Women want men to be the pursuers, like someone above said. If I get the machine, I just hang up; if she has caller ID, she'll know you called, if she is THAT interested she'll call you back. If not, you can still try a few days later.

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