"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls who are shyer, cleaner, more conservative, less experienced

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Very broad topic, but what are some simple ways that the game changes with girls who are not as easy, not as open, had less guys before, basically LTR material, would test to the point of not allowing themselves to be quickly banged and discarded?

Some of these might want to get to know you over text more, before meeting in person

Tend to pull away from blatant sexuality if it's expressed early on. Would need to be done more covertly

What else?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Could be frustratingly structured... may also need to go slow. These ladies are not for impatient men.
 
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Could be frustratingly structured... may also need to go slow. These ladies are not for impatient men.
I have a ton of patience, but doesn't it seem likely that patience will just exceed the deadline of solidifying attraction?

If patience is all it takes then no problem, but I'd think one would need a host of other skills to really connect with the girl in a personal and sexual way, if she isn't open to going the quicker route of attraction.

Basically the longer she knows you without banging, the more you'd need to compensate with deeper methods of attraction, no?
 
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There should be a source to get info on specifically these girls and how to game them efficiently.
 

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There should be a source to get info on specifically these girls and how to game them efficiently.
Sure, eye contact works!!! Can be extremely sexual. Remember, the brain is the largest sex organ in the body. Been flirting with ladies for months, without touching them. Been doing good, I'm happy! But, then again, I'm in no hurry to get laid, lol!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a ton of patience, but doesn't it seem likely that patience will just exceed the deadline of solidifying attraction?

If patience is all it takes then no problem, but I'd think one would need a host of other skills to really connect with the girl in a personal and sexual way, if she isn't open to going the quicker route of attraction.

Basically the longer she knows you without banging, the more you'd need to compensate with deeper methods of attraction, no?
Sure, eye contact works!!! Can be extremely sexual. Remember, the brain is the largest sex organ in the body. Been flirting with ladies for months, without touching them. Been doing good, I'm happy! But, then again, I'm in no hurry to get laid, lol!!!
 

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The shyest ones are usually the freakiest in bed because all of the sexual repression they bottled up inside explodes when the time comes.
 

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There should be a source to get info on specifically these girls and how to game them efficiently.

All women should be treated the same in the sense that none of them should be placed on a pedestal. Good looking, ugly, fat, anorexic, rich, poor etc...It doesn't matter. They are all treated the same. No one gets special treatment because of certain perks unless it's your mother.
 

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The shyest ones are usually the freakiest in bed because all of the sexual repression they bottled up inside explodes when the time comes.
This is true. Wise words.

I've dated 3 virgins before and took all 3 of em. Every girl is a slut, she's just waiting for the right kind of guy to bring that out in her.
I dated many years before meeting these virgins and the experience of "experienced" girls really hardened me and got my game up to snuff. Then when I came off as I normally do to these girls it was like shooting a fish in a barrel. Easily the best relationships of my life have been with virgins, at least until they go nuts with jealousy.

A key concept that I found worked really well was establishing attraction with comfort at the same time. Because they are a virgin they have proven they aren't going to give it up for just any guy. Reassure them you won't vanish the next day but maintain your frame.
 

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Go easy on the negs. It is like fish in a barrel, so don't "game it". Go in with strong "gentleman suave" frame, pass **** tests, play good endgame. If they fail and you are sick of waiting, **** it. Move on.

Don't give them special focus. They are just another chick.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds like my girlfriend. She was shy, no sexual experience with guys at all and never had a boyfriend. I tried advancing early on, but I was denied. I remembered back to the time I was really shy, to understand how she was feeling. It's really just to feel uncomfortable around someone, like you don't know him/her or what may upset them (their boundaries).

So I mostly just focused on being comfortable, patient, open and calm. They usually open up if you just remain calm and understanding, not reacting emotionally negative and give them time. She gradually started being comfortable as she got to know me and see that I didn't do anything bad to her.

I had to take initiative for the sex though and the 5 first times she stopped me. I didn't try every time we met, again to ease her into it. Eventually she didn't stop me when I made advances and let me take her virginity. She was still a little shy though, but not anymore. Now she's just a little shy when we're around many people, but not at all when we're alone together.

She's turning out to be an amazing girlfriend. She's also very much into having sex, we're doing it every time we're together. Oddly enough she fvcks better than any experienced girl I've fvcked.

The game changes in such a way that you won't win unless you're seriously into having a relationship, meaning ordinary game is counterproductive. You either got to be honest or very deceptive to get them to bed. By deceptive I mean pretending to be interested in a relationship while you're really not. So basically don't play games.
 
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