"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls Weird Fetish On Me

bambino

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Is it normal for girls to love your stomach? lol

I don't have the whole 6 pack thing going but she says she'd rather have something comfy to lie on like my stomach than guys with 6 packs cuz its comfy... She says she likes guys who have strong arms, chest and have a gut.. (thats me, I'm atheletic)

Everytime I see her she hugs me and touches me and stuff just above, the you know.. Anyways, is this a good thing or is the girl just messing with me? I just want some assurance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Smooth Player 056

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Your just a friend.

Let me tell you why: They say, "I like you, your so nice, I like nice guys better than jerks"

She said: "I like your COMFY(nice) stomach, I like it better than the guys' with the (jerk/badboy) 6 pack)"


see a resemblance?

~Smooth
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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aftershock

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Hmm, I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss it. You've got some good kino going there, try to do similar to her, gradually, and see how she takes it.
 

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perhaps she thinks that you think you are fat and she is trying to make you feel better about it.
or
i have a friend who only wants a guy who is big. shes a stick and she says that she stays warmer in bed because hes bigger.
 

DJ4Real

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Complicated chick...sounds like she's comfortable with you, she likes flirting with you, and I guess she is trying to see how you'll react to this.
 

bambino

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
You have a gut, and you're athletic? Huh?
lol

Not like a huge gut. :crackup: It's not too big to see but you can feel it... It's kinda hard to explain but I play baseball and I'm planning on going to football since all the coaches come up to me saying I can be a running back, lineman or tight end.

Anyways, I see this girl just looking at me and coming to me every chance she gets during class. I only have one class with her.

Yesterday she came up to me, did the usual rubbing and stuff then she goes from my stomach to my face and saying how soft my skin is. I joke and kino a little bit about her and she takes it positively. Then she starts kissing my cheek like, at least 5 times.

She also tells me how my teeth are perfect and that she loves my perfect teeth. Next thing I know she'll be kissing those too! :p
 

Boner da Stoner

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big teddy bear... ooh coochy goo!!!

lol some girls love the love handles and the rest of it, they can see perfection, but they want the flaws too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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