"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls wanting to take things slow?

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Jababa

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Would it be bad if the girl you are seeing want to "take things slow"?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is she a HB8.0+? From my experiences, if she wants to take it slow, she has options.
 
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Im with the other options thing, been there done that. She took the 'other option' and i got the "lets just be friends"

I belived it back then too lmao
 
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If she wants to take it slow, you take it slower. You've got things to do, people to see.

If she likes you, she'll start too wonder, then speed up - At which point take full pace control.
 
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I never get this. If any guy is getting this its because of something he's doing. He is probably coming across as too much of a "nice guy"/provider.

Trust me, all women are very sexual. They LOVE IT MAN. The ones you think are nice lil church girls are doing guys super freaking nasty style and screaming porn like lines at him. They want to be sexed in public places or the woods. There is no nice lil women who don't want hot, nasty sex. Every freaking womans magazine is almost totally about sex. Trust me these women want to be taken big time just not by some "nice guy". She doesn't think he'll even have it in him to do her that way. Is he going to change that image now or keep going down this same path as 90% of White men in Western Society?

A guy with the provider frame will actually cause a woman to react this way. They will also try to use him and start asking him to buy dinners or help her get her oil changed or blah blah blah. I do occasionally buy a dinner, but ussually only after I've already slept with a woman at least a couple of times. Even then it's not always such a great idea because it confuses things if she's just a FB.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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