"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls wanting to take things slow?

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Jababa

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Would it be bad if the girl you are seeing want to "take things slow"?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is she a HB8.0+? From my experiences, if she wants to take it slow, she has options.
 
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Im with the other options thing, been there done that. She took the 'other option' and i got the "lets just be friends"

I belived it back then too lmao
 
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If she wants to take it slow, you take it slower. You've got things to do, people to see.

If she likes you, she'll start too wonder, then speed up - At which point take full pace control.
 
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I never get this. If any guy is getting this its because of something he's doing. He is probably coming across as too much of a "nice guy"/provider.

Trust me, all women are very sexual. They LOVE IT MAN. The ones you think are nice lil church girls are doing guys super freaking nasty style and screaming porn like lines at him. They want to be sexed in public places or the woods. There is no nice lil women who don't want hot, nasty sex. Every freaking womans magazine is almost totally about sex. Trust me these women want to be taken big time just not by some "nice guy". She doesn't think he'll even have it in him to do her that way. Is he going to change that image now or keep going down this same path as 90% of White men in Western Society?

A guy with the provider frame will actually cause a woman to react this way. They will also try to use him and start asking him to buy dinners or help her get her oil changed or blah blah blah. I do occasionally buy a dinner, but ussually only after I've already slept with a woman at least a couple of times. Even then it's not always such a great idea because it confuses things if she's just a FB.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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