"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls wanted me to lift up my shirt

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I was over this girls house whom I have no intrest in and is just my friend and she had her friend over who I just met that day. OK lets just say the friend was :up:. Yea she was pretty hot. I don't remember how we got into it but the ugg wanted me to lift my shirt up and the friend got into the idea to. I was like "no **** you" and I didnt. Do You guys think I made myself out to be a total pvssy or the whole thing is indefferent? I guess im a rafc and I just need to know if i'm in a similar situiation.

O and i'm not fat or anything, I just didn't want the ugg to like me even more than she already did.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Im confused about how that came up, and why it was a problem to begin with? Were you discussing stomachs/abs or something? I hope you werent bragging and then didn't back it up....
 
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No no I wasn't bragging at all to them. The ugg likes me too much and just wanted me to lift my shirt up. I'm just asking if saying no made me look like a pvssy infront of the hot friend. Just need it for future considerations.
 
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I say no, didnt make you look like a *****. Doing what she tells you woulda made you a *****. That's just my opinion tho. I'm still new to this. Next time, tell her to lift her shirt up first, then you'll consider it :p.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ehhhh while i'm here i'm kind of stuck on what the hot girl ment when she was making a deal about how im as skinny as her and she grabbed my waist. IOI, indefferent, or should I need to stfu and stop analyzing everything?
 
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BBX said:
Ehhhh while i'm here i'm kind of stuck on what the hot girl ment when she was making a deal about how im as skinny as her and she grabbed my waist. IOI, indefferent, or should I need to stfu and stop analyzing everything?
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If a girl tells you you are skinny it's not a good indication. Seems like she wanted to confirm how skinny you were.
 
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Are u kidding?

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Do You guys think I made myself out to be a total pvssy
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are u kidding???? stop analyzing so much... wtf... you dont have to do **** that your friend says.. now if a girl asks, then she might see it as rejection if you dont respond, but if you do C+F(****y and funny) i.e. "If I raise my shirt you will get hot, and I will get hot, and then we going to have to do something about it, but I dont feel comfterble doing it in front of everyone, so your going to have to wait for next time"

or say "You look better, so why not lift yours, cause it will be a better sight"

you know

who cares man... jeezes... worry about things like when you call her a "c.unt" or a "wh.ore" during a fight.. jeezes.. this is so minor!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lift ur shirt then take off your pants and swing your **** in a counterclockwise motion...then stand on one foot and jump off the cofee table landing on the Hb and poke her with your hardo-on on accident though and then go home to your bed a do ur daily ritual with your lotion and hand.
 
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I get that a lot, especially when wearing a vest or something. If they're making a request always throw hoops before they get what they wanted. Make them work for your attention.
 
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