"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls wanted me to lift up my shirt

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I was over this girls house whom I have no intrest in and is just my friend and she had her friend over who I just met that day. OK lets just say the friend was :up:. Yea she was pretty hot. I don't remember how we got into it but the ugg wanted me to lift my shirt up and the friend got into the idea to. I was like "no **** you" and I didnt. Do You guys think I made myself out to be a total pvssy or the whole thing is indefferent? I guess im a rafc and I just need to know if i'm in a similar situiation.

O and i'm not fat or anything, I just didn't want the ugg to like me even more than she already did.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im confused about how that came up, and why it was a problem to begin with? Were you discussing stomachs/abs or something? I hope you werent bragging and then didn't back it up....
 

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No no I wasn't bragging at all to them. The ugg likes me too much and just wanted me to lift my shirt up. I'm just asking if saying no made me look like a pvssy infront of the hot friend. Just need it for future considerations.
 

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I say no, didnt make you look like a *****. Doing what she tells you woulda made you a *****. That's just my opinion tho. I'm still new to this. Next time, tell her to lift her shirt up first, then you'll consider it :p.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ehhhh while i'm here i'm kind of stuck on what the hot girl ment when she was making a deal about how im as skinny as her and she grabbed my waist. IOI, indefferent, or should I need to stfu and stop analyzing everything?
 

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BBX said:
Ehhhh while i'm here i'm kind of stuck on what the hot girl ment when she was making a deal about how im as skinny as her and she grabbed my waist. IOI, indefferent, or should I need to stfu and stop analyzing everything?
If a girl tells you you are skinny it's not a good indication. Seems like she wanted to confirm how skinny you were.
 
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Are u kidding?

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Do You guys think I made myself out to be a total pvssy

are u kidding???? stop analyzing so much... wtf... you dont have to do **** that your friend says.. now if a girl asks, then she might see it as rejection if you dont respond, but if you do C+F(****y and funny) i.e. "If I raise my shirt you will get hot, and I will get hot, and then we going to have to do something about it, but I dont feel comfterble doing it in front of everyone, so your going to have to wait for next time"

or say "You look better, so why not lift yours, cause it will be a better sight"

you know

who cares man... jeezes... worry about things like when you call her a "c.unt" or a "wh.ore" during a fight.. jeezes.. this is so minor!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lift ur shirt then take off your pants and swing your **** in a counterclockwise motion...then stand on one foot and jump off the cofee table landing on the Hb and poke her with your hardo-on on accident though and then go home to your bed a do ur daily ritual with your lotion and hand.
 

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I get that a lot, especially when wearing a vest or something. If they're making a request always throw hoops before they get what they wanted. Make them work for your attention.
 
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