"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls want guys to give their numbers? that's what this one chick says

sharpshooter

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we had an argument, she was basically arguing that if a guy gave her number she WOULD call them 99 percent of the time. I was telling her that most girls WOULD NOT call at all if a guy just made a cold approach and handed her his number, without getting one in return.

who agrees, disagrees?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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A "qualified" woman will call you.
 

Walk this Way

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A few days ago I exchanged numbers with a girl, but "memorized" her number like an idiot just to look smooth. Well I forgot it like two minutes later. She called me today though.
 

jnallen

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How does that even make a difference...Most "chicks" won't give you there number...Way to damn shy...

So the more numbers you put out...the more chances you have. You may give your number to a woman you think has "no interst" and find out she does...

The "hot" ones are the ones that get no numbers because men are afraid to approach them...

Get my drift...

JNA
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ol'BlueEyes

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You're right and your girl friend's off base Sharp.
Sounds to me like she's defending women, implying that they aren't shallow and they like to give every guy a chance.
I ain't buying it.
 
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